subject: Giving Gifts to the hearts and time to grasp the gift-giving environment [print this page] Giving Gifts to the hearts and time to grasp the gift-giving environment
The saying goes, a gift to send to the hearts. Gift is the feeling of passing objects is sent emotional medium. Therefore, according to their emotional and psychological to select a gift, that is, to do everything possible to their own emotional psychology, manifested by a specific gift, acceptance of gifts to each other, can feel this deep affection, that is Momi love, affection.
Knowledge of traditional Chinese gift-giving: In general, the poor family who, in order to benefit better; on the wealthy in order to elaborate better; pair of lovers, lover, lover, to commemorate the sex is better; on friends to fun better ; on the elderly, to better practical; the children to new and better special education; foreign guests to feature better. "Parents think of festivals," Nature will make you think of family reunion, this time might give him some good luck, reunion things; 61 Children's Day, adults will be considered by some to send to kids toys, school supplies like gift, which is to promote family ties, a way to encourage upward mobility. Thus, different time, gifts to express different feelings. Everyone has a certain purpose gifts, friends gifts is to deepen friendship, parents give their children gifts that promote family, husband to wife gifts is sublimated love. Leadership gifts for the staff to deepen personal relationships. Therefore, the purpose of different decision to buy a different gift-giving gifts.
Grasp the gift of the environment and the opportunity
"Lanzhou muster, never doubted see tears in their eyes" is a mood of parting lovers, such as send gifts like jewelry lovers are better able to express true feelings between the rain. Train whistle blew four classmate, Ben eras the End of the World, to my dear buddy left a yearbook or a beautiful phone book, will be the Song of length. Different circumstances, be a different gift to express intention.
Should face a general complimentary gift. But sometimes the wedding can also be sent in advance. He holiday gift, presented in gift can be sent home or sent by mail. At this time the giver should be attached with the gift card can also be hand-written message, put the envelope in size as the envelope the name indicated on gifts, gift wrapping paper affixed to the top. Typically, a group of people in public only to an individual gift is not appropriate. Because of bribery and by the gifts people have a sense of fool, but who would not have ignored or gifts, and by the feeling of contempt. Gift to the people who are not close to public occasions in order to avoid leaving you close to the public is completely supported by the feeling of material things. Only a small gift the special bonds of friendship, re-gift, the gift of the expression of specific emotions, it is appropriate to the gift in front of a large crowd. Because then the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. If a special souvenirs.
Friendly attitude, words do not lose
Gifts should pay attention to the attitude, action and language. Peace-friendly, graceful movements accompanied by courtesy of language, is the party willing to accept gifts. The kind of thief-style gift quietly placed somewhere under the table, or the practice room, a gift not only not achieve the purpose, or even just be counterproductive. In China's general habits, when his always too modest gifts and said: "little gift! Little gift!" "Only a little piece of cake" or "very sorry ... ..." This is best avoided. Of course, when presented a kind of pride in the tone, said: "This is a very precious thing!" Is also inappropriate. In the giving of gifts for presentation, it should be emphasized that some of his good opinion of the recipient of a Fang Suohuai and brotherhood, rather than on the real value of the gift, otherwise, they fall into a sense of propriety and the point of light, even make the other side there is a feeling of taking bribes.
Take into account the customary rituals
Gifts must grasp the principle of avoiding taboo: China has always been state of ceremonies, traditionally attached great importance to reciprocity. "Benevolence, apparatus, courtesy, wisdom and trust", where "Man" is the most classic of Confucian thinking, the most brilliant page. Its far-reaching, has also become people's esteem. Therefore, the gift that best express the feeling will become a means of communication. Objectively speaking, gifts by time, environment, customs and constraints; subjective sense, a gift for the object, for different purposes. For example, the Chinese generally have "good pairs" of the statement, which all great things He Daxi, the delivery of the ceremony are a good double bogey single, but Cantonese is taboo: 4 "is even, because in Cantonese, the" 4 "sounds like" death "is not auspicious. no matter how good, although the immaculate white of Italy, but the Chinese are taboo, because in China the color white is often compassion and poverty of color. Similarly, Black is also considered inauspicious, the worse disaster of color, sad funeral of color. and red, is the happy, peaceful celebration of the symbol, was widely loved. Moreover, Chinese people often pay attention to the elderly can not get clocks and watches, to the husband and wife or lover can not send pears, because the "free minutes" and "nail in the coffin", "pear" and "off" homonym, was unlucky. Also, if they can not get drugs to healthy people, can not be sent to the opposite sex tailor supplies.
