subject: Attraction- First Date Do's and Don'ts [print this page] Attraction- First Date Do's and Don'ts Attraction- First Date Do's and Don'ts
Physical attraction is the first form of attraction when you first meet someone. Once you're physically attracted, the next step in attraction will be their personality.
Other things that boost attraction or add to it are the sense of smell and the sound the voice. The next would be physical feel like holding hands, hugging, a hand on the shoulder and cuddling. This closeness further brings smell into play the sweet smell of hair, the scent of dryer sheets on the clothes, and perfume on the neck.
Like from my poem series the scent of a woman. Scent can drive you wild and it keeps their face in your mind. Another attraction booster is good treatment. Being treated good means the world.
Honesty, dedication, compassion and availability is another important quality. You've heard that clothes make the man, well they make the woman too. What she wears tells of what she thinks of herself.
A woman doesn't have to start putting her boobs on display in order to be attractive. Sure it looks good, but a good man figures that a good woman will not be putting things on display for the world to see.
She can catch her man by being stylishly dressed, nice hair doo, sweet smelling perfume, a nice smile and of course a friendly personality.
These things go much farther than cleavage.
I used to date a woman that just couldn't keep the tops of her boobs in her shirt, I think she was insecure. Even though I told her to get a whole shirt, I guess she thought that was the way to look good for me.
And yes it looks good, but the problem was with that cleavage staring me in face in couldn't my eyes off the boobs.
I gave more attention to the boobs than I did to her face or what she was saying. I guess it's just the guy in me. When there's cleavage involved the attention goes to the chest and not the head. I could understand it if my date is out to seduce me and the cleavage is a way of enticing me.
But my point here is not against cleavage. The point is that a woman doesn't have to show skin to get men. Hey I like that it rhymes.
Ladies put all the work into your make up and your face, keep the focus where it belongs.
When your relationship cultivates and you want to get physical then you can start in with the cleavage. But don't show them unless you expect to get touched. Keep them wondering and wishing.
Dresses and skirts are sexy, attractive and classy. Just don't wear a hoochie mama skirt. If you can't bend over without showing your panties it's too short, and if you have to close your legs and squat down side ways to pick up something just to keep your fanny from showing then it's too short
Long is classy short is trashy, and yes it looks good, but I wouldn't want everyone seeing my woman's butt and her panties.
Think business woman when you go out on date. Not like one you may see in a soap opera with cleavage. One that you may see in a board room or like a Sara Palin.
Form fitting jeans are attractive, but the jeans that are so tight that they dig up into your butt and you can see your twat crack in the front is not.
Guys when you go on a date dress to impress, don't dress to depress.
Wear decent kakis or nice jeans, leave the Bermuda shorts at home,
Wear a decent button up shirt or at least a nice polo shirt.
Leave the A/C shirt in the closet and don't wear your Redman cap.
Get a hair cut, style it nice. Leave the flip flops and brogans at home. Hiking boots are not attractive. Don't wear tacky jewelry, leave the skull rings and the out of date turquoise at home.
Take a real shower not a sink bath, and don't try to get by with just a deodorant refresher. Dress like your going to a job interview, yes dude leave the beer at home too. Brush your teeth and use cologne.
But not too much. And don't buy cheap grocery store cologne, buy one get one free cologne is not acceptable. That may work back at the trailer park but not on a classy date.
Dress your self in such a manner as you would have your potential date to dress. Remember to be a gentleman, open the door for the lady and be respectful. Try to have fun, be humorous, be yourself, and no dirty jokes.
There are many different things that attract different kinds of people. This article is for your basic normal attraction. Obviously if you're a biker and you into biker chicks then your mode of dress will be different. Dress to impress what you're looking for, dress for the occasion.
Whether you like it classy or trashy the choice is yours. But dress appropriately for the kind of person that you wish to attract.
This article is meant to help people to be attractive on their first date.
This is one mans opinion from one mans experience, so happy dating.
