subject: 5 Vital Danger Signs in Relationships That Tell you to End It Now! [print this page] 5 Vital Danger Signs in Relationships That Tell you to End It Now!
Have you ever met someone and thought you have met Mr. or Miss Right?? You are on cloud nine, in seventh heaven and things could not be better. Then little faults start appearing and you start to wonder If it all seems too good to be true, it probably is. By reading this article you will find out 5 danger signs in relationships that will tell you to make your escape.
1.Control
Does your partner enquire on a regular basis about what you are doing and where you are at every single minute of the day. Does he or she call you when you are not at home, questioning what time you plan to be back home or does he or she turn up when you are with your mates to see that you are behaving? Scheming behaviour also exhibits itself when someone tries to deny love until you give into their what they want from you. If this is happening, this is domination. It is one of the important danger signs in relationships because if that power over a person is gone, this can lead to violent emotions and even physical violence.
2.Contempt
Maybe when you first went out with each other, your partner was always saying to you how relieved he or she was not to be with that terrible person he or she was with before. Believe you me that as the relationship moves on, you will be the target of the contempt. If he or she is overly critical about what you say or do or how you dress, if he or she puts you down in public, then this is probably happening already.
3.Justifications
Are you always finding explanations for what he or she does or says? He or she forgot your birthday or just didn't turn up again but you are always finding a way to explain why that was the case. He is or she is not looking after you emotionally and is only doing what suits him or her. This kind of contempt is very dangerous and it will only get worse.
4.Not enough Honesty and Open Communication
Now I'm not even talking here about someone who lies to you. That would be a pretty dangerous signal. A reluctance or refusal to speak about certain issues can be just as bad. This evasion of true communication leads to coldness and a lack of closeness between you. In order for a relationship to develop you have to be prepared to discuss grueling as well as agreeable areas and you certainly don't want to have to treat someone with kid gloves in case they don't like what you are saying to them.
5.Jealousy
Does your partner flirt with the opposite sex and then get irritated when you protest. Together with this is the incapability of a partner to bear you chatting with the opposite sex. Jealousy is a indication of intense insecurity and is a crucial danger sign in relationships since this insecurity can lead to a longing for control, anger issues and physical or emotional abuse.
So if you see any of these 5 danger signs in relationships it is time to say goodbye but don't walk, run!
