subject: How to Not Pick Up Women in a Bar [print this page] How to Not Pick Up Women in a Bar How to Not Pick Up Women in a Bar
Picking up women in a bar is a task best left to the experts. It's just a fact of life that some men are good at it, and others will always be bad at it.
In this light, tips on how NOT to pickup women should be given more emphasis. Countless number of men, have embarrassed themselves unnecessarily after reading an article on how to pick up women in a bar. They'd feel the confidence of a tiger out on a hunt in a bar and end up going out with the confidence of a chimpanzee. Credit that to overconfidence and a false swelling of pride. They'd find their target then choose from a template of one liners that simply make women cringe.
The first thing women don't want men to do is to creep them out. Unfortunately, lots of men creep women out. And I'm not just talking about women getting creeped out by men's looks, most of the time women are creeped out by how men look at them. Well, it's only natural, how would you feel if you're a guy and another guy with a devilish grin approaches you with a dirty one liner?
We guys tend to look in the wrong places whenever we check out girls. Girls don't like that. So, don't look at their breasts or behinds. Look in their eyes romantically.
Women like it better if you are subtle. Overly aggressive males tend to make the impression of a psychopath or a neurotic freak. Try to avoid the serial killer look by craving for too much attention.
Above all, when you pick up women in a bar, make it seem like you're not picking them up.
