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Female Fact About First Time Sex # 1
If you don't make them happy the first time... there probably will NEVER be a second time. Many guys think that it is ok if they aren't good the first time in bed. Not true! You see, the first time with a girl is actually the MOST IMPORTANT time that you need to make her happy. Why? Because how you perform in bed the first time is one of the only ways that she can measure you as a man. For women, they want to feel safe and protected by their man. They want to know that he can take care of their needs. If you don't make them feel comfortable, feel an emotional connection (which you have to know how to do the FIRST TIME), and give them orgasms they're simply not impressed. MAYBE they'll give you a second shot but you really have to work your way back in and we will defietely be seeing other guys too. If you don't make them feel happy the first time, it sends a deep signal to them that "this guy can't take care of me." It's not TOTALLY logical but they don't have ANY other ways to make a very personal judgement. Any guy can buy them dinner or take them out on a date, but the guy that can make them orgasm over and over the first time, now HE is someone special :) This type of guy is very rare and HE is the guy they just want to be with, on ANY terms!
Female Fact about First Time Sex # 2
Giving your girl an orgasm the FIRST TIME is not about "Size or Stamina", it's about "Sexual Chemistry"! BELIVE THAT. Many guys think that if they get on top and pound away their new lover will be very excited and come over and over for them. You CAN turn the girls into silly putty in your arms as they come over and over pounding away like a machine is not the way. To be fair, it is really hard for a man to "know this" without a woman telling him... You see, for women, the first time is all about "sexual chemistry". Check out what they read or the shows that they watch :)
Take Cosmopolitan Magazine or the television show "Sex in the City". Whenever women TALK about new lovers that were amazing they always talk about the "sexual chemistry." To put it plain and simple for you silly boys: Sexual Chemistry the first time is all about you saying the right things in bed the first time, using the right positions, and going from the date to the bedroom SMOOTHLY and naturally. When you do those things right, they surrender their bodies, minds and their orgasms to you. Let's keep going :)
Female Fact about First Time Sex # 3
If you don't GET to the Sex the right way they have already CHECKED OUT before it begins! Women, when with a new lover JUDGE everything. Yes of course they judge you...just as you look at them to make sure we are pretty and treat you like you want to be treated. But beyond looking to make sure they aren't excessive nose hairs (hehe) they are really judging HOW you get them to the sex. If you don't do foreplay right (and remember guys, foreplay is NOT them giving you a blowjob!) by the time you are inside them they CAN'T come. You just haven't warmed them up right with your words, your touches, and the steps you took to get them naked ! When you don't follow what women consider the "natural" path from a date to sex they feel awkward and self conscious. And when they feel like that... You have given them NO chance to relax and orgasm!
Female Fact About First Time Sex #4
99% of men use the wrong positions (and techniques) the first time and forget what matters most! The first time you are with a woman is extremely different for her than ANY other time you are with her. (if you get a second shot) For women, they want you to use the positions and techniques and SAY the things that make them have that "sexual chemistry." First time sex for women is NOT about advanced sex positions or you showing off your crazy skills. It is about you getting inside their heads, hearts, and body in the way that forever draws them to you sexually. For the first time it is all about using the techniques and putting them in the positions that make us feel safe, relaxed, and CONNECTED to you! Then they can orgasm for you...often more than once!
Now that I've spilled the beans on how women think about first time sex, go there and try to improve your game.
