subject: How To Get Back Your Love And Rediscover Lost Feelings For Each Other [print this page] If you are wondering how to get back your love and your relationship is on the slide then you need to be aware of some things which could be contributing.
Getting back love is a tough thing to do and when two people decide that there is nothing there anymore to keep them together, then they part company. But in many instances, what seems a simple case of falling out of love could actually be more of a case of suppressing strong feelings for one reason or another.
In other words, your relationship could have drifted to a point where you are just going through the same old motions and forgotten what it was that attracted you to each other in the first place. Remember those times? Nothing could touch you and you felt invincible.
In this article we present some scenarios for you to consider and this is particularly important if you and your partner have been apart for a short period of time.
Getting That Loving Feeling Back
- It's important not to suffocate your ex. This is the toughest thing to do because all you want to do is try to make them see what a mistake they are making by throwing away the relationship. But it's what you have to do so keep your distance.
- By giving them space you are giving them the chance to miss you again. How can they miss you if you are constantly "on their hammer" trying to convince them to come back. Can you see how important this step is? You are only raising their anger levels by not giving them their "own time."
- During this sabbatical you should be working on yourself. Working on areas of your life or physical appearance that could have annoyed your ex enough to eventually want to break up is imperative. Your ex needs to see you are willing to make an effort on yourself before they are prepared to invest any more time in you.
- Talking will be important at some point. Right now, this is a period of both adjustment and respect for each others right to heal and improve. But you still need to talk at some stage in the future and it could be in as little as a few weeks.
- By giving each other the time you have, getting together and talking will be a time where you can both actually sit down and talk about things rationally. You need to be honest and let each other know how you really feel and where you are going. You need to understand each others point-of-view and when you do you give yourself a much better chance to get back love.
