subject: Be Confident and Interesting - It Rubs Off [print this page] Be Confident and Interesting - It Rubs Off
If you are confident and interesting around people it rubs off on them. All of a sudden you become someone who people want to know, people want to talk to you, and people want to know you. You are incredibly interesting to people and they want to know more, everything you touch turns to gold and they want to know how.
How do you achieve this sentiment? Well you need to be yourself, and be as confident as you possibly can be. Ensure that you look directly into people's eyes when you talk to them. This engages them in your conversation and they hang onto your every word. Being standoffish and relaxed also ensures that you do not come on too strong. If you are in a fixed stance and looking directly into their eyes could come across a bit intense.
The main thing you want to do around people is ensure that you are able to be yourself, as well as remaining interesting. If you can be straight to the point concoct your stories into a lethal cocktail of detailed knowledge, you will be halfway there. Once you have got a woman's attention the rest becomes somewhat easier. You are able to build a rapport with the woman and quickly build up a strong link in conversation that can help you get her into bed.
And at the end of the day it is what we are all about, we are always trying to get the opposite sex into bed. Being interesting and remaining so throughout a conversation is an art. Don't talk about yourself too much, but at the same time let a girl know you have an interesting life. Don't be self absorbed but don't be uninteresting.
Be open and relaxed, yet mysterious and serene. If you are able to keep the mystery in a conversation a woman will be more interested to find out exactly who you are. Do whatever you wanna do to compliment a girl. If you don't treat her badly it will lead to good things. Keeping them from being on top in a situation ensures they remain interested and carry on talking to you.
These really are important assets if you are going to be able to bed this woman. And who knows even go further than that and start something more serious. Keep yourself out of the danger zones, and in the zones that get you interested and you will be fine.
