subject: The MILF Cougar Debate - The Difference of Experience [print this page] The MILF Cougar Debate - The Difference of Experience
There are times it is an appropriate description, but a true MILF-Cougar is the exception, not the standard. Let us explore a brief description of each and why a Cougar could be your ideal date.
A MILF is a mother who men consider very sexy and desirable. Did you notice a glaring problem in this description? It does not take into consideration whether she is single or not. It does not take into consideration whether she is interested in dating anyone or not. It just describes a woman with children men find sexually attractive.
A Cougar is an older woman who chooses to date younger men. The first thing you should notice is a Cougar is looking for a man to date. She is making a conscious decision to have a relationship. This is critical if you want to actually touch a woman instead of just lusting after them. There is one thing to note here, too. A Cougar is not necessarily gorgeous. In most cases they are very attractive older women, but there are many Cougars who are average looking women.
Why would you, as a young man, choose to date an older woman? Here are a few good reasons you should consider:
She respects you as a person. (Not always true of younger women.)
Her sexual energy is a match to yours. (Women sexually peak at a later age.)
She has overcome inhibitions which stand in the way of fun.
She is self-confident, not a needy person.
Most times a Cougar shares in the expense of dates, if not paying for everything.
Intelligent conversation on topics you enjoy. (No more talk about the "cute handbag on sale")
Those are just a small sampling of the reasons. The two big differences you must consider when choosing between chasing a MILF or Cougar is availability and desire. A Cougar is available, looking for you, and ready for contact. She desires a relationship filled with fun and physical enjoyment. On the other hand, you may start chasing a MILF and get shut down immediately.
Obviously, you can find the best of both worlds when you locate a true MILF-Cougar. Just keep in mind, look for a Cougar and when you run across a gorgeous woman who happens to be a mother, you have accomplished the other part of your dream, too. At least you will know you are talking to women who are legitimately interested in meeting you, not women who are just as likely to run away screaming.
What is the easiest way to start meeting Cougars? While there are many of them in your local community they often keep low profiles. The fastest way to meet a Cougar, including a MILF-Cougar, is to use an online service.
To learn more reasons your perfect relationship might be with a Cougar, and where to find them today read this great post on http://meetolderwomennow.info or other articles at http://http:meetolderwomennow.info/articles
