subject: Secrets To Getting Women Without Having Good Looks [print this page] Secrets To Getting Women Without Having Good Looks
A few years ago when I first started trying to figure out how I can be better with women, I assumed that to get the smoking hot when, I had to be super good looking, really tall, and have a head full of hair. You probably had the same thoughts I once had. Makes a lot of sense to us guys when you think about it.
A majority of the time us guys only find ourselves attracted to women who have a nice shapely body and a pretty face and as a result we assume that's what women base their decision on as well. Well guess what, attraction does work that way for women! The opposite sex will be way more attracted to what a man possesses on the inside rather than how he looks on the outside.
I'm pretty sure you've seen drop dead gorgeous women with guys who are sub par in the looks department. She was attracted to the traits that he possesses!
Sure a woman will be really attracted to a guy who has good looks but the great thing is you don't have to be good looking to make her feel that way towards you. So what do women find attractive inside of a man?
A few of the traits that women find attractive in men are confidence, leadership, masculinity, courage, and decisiveness. The good news is, these are traits that any man can cultivate and embody. In caveman days, if you didn't possess those traits, you couldn't fill your role as the protector and the provider. Even though such times are behind us, women still look for those qualities in men.
So what can you do? The most beneficial thing that you can do right now is to let go of your boyish behavior and become a man.
Make an effort to learn and improve your leadership skills. Go read books on it. learn what the best leaders do and start emulating them. Be a man of courage. Do things that are unfamiliar or fearful to you. Can't seem to talk in front of a crowd without feeling nervous to death? Join a local toast master and start doing toasts until speaking in public becomes second nature. Don't second guess the decisions that you are making. The worst that could happen is you find out it wasn't a very good decision and can do something else. Go study what it takes to be a real man. Like they say "opposites attract". Attractive women won't view you in a romantic light if you are acting neutered. She's not going to give you any signs of attraction.
In due time and with enough application you will start to embody a powerful trait only a few men possess: masculine confidence. This is what's going to allow you to walk into a room and command the attention of even the most attractive woman.
