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It's well known that all couples will go through rough times in their relationship. If you have not had problems in your relationship no matter how minor then you are missing out on an important event. In reality it is not if you will have trouble together with your partner but when will it happen.
What you need to be thinking is if we are going to have an argument or something worse how can I prevent a break up from happening? Fortunately there are some things you can do to help prevent the two of you from splitting up, the following tips may help.
If you have been with your partner for some time now the two of you may be getting complacent with each other. You start to take things for granted and feel like your partner will understand. Unfortunately this does not always hold true, your partner may be getting the feeling of being emotionally neglected and is starting to feel as if the relationship is coming to an end.
When a relationship reaches this point, this can be when the partner my start to seek out someone else that will give them the support they crave. If you want to avoid this scenario you need to make sure that you do not get to the point of just taking them for granted.
It does not take much to do this and is easy to do. When was the last time the two of you went on a real date, a date like the ones you had when you first met? Put some time aside to go out occasionally just like it was your first date. Do not talk about your day at work, money issues or anything else along those lines, act like you are just learning about each other.
Another area of importance is your love life. Things can start to get dull and unimaginative when it comes to love making so why not get creative and spice things up. Even the act of cuddling and holding hands can go along way in reconnecting with each other. With a little work you can reignite those smoldering flames into a fiery passion.
Learning to communicate again has been something many couples have done to salvage their relationship. The two of you may not talk to each other as much as you once did because of a busy schedule or even lack of anything to say. Spend some time with your partner and ask them about their day and about any interest they may have. Doing this show's you have an interest in their life and will bring you a bit closer together.