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Recently edition.cnn.comreported that 40 million Americansarebogged down in sexless marriages. It is seen a common conduct in sex life and an increase in relationships with low desire of sex.A lot of factorsare aresult of such facts. Couples have the stress of the recession. They are too tired and too busy for sex. There is a great number of websites which have easy access to Internet porn viewingin addition. And it was revealed that many medications have the side effects. These medications prevent desire. Especially they are a kind of anti-depressants.
Sexologists affirm that the rise in fatness and other health and lifestyle issues dampen libido.
Nowadays couples used to go to sexperts. Married couples often ask how frequently they should be having sex. But indeed, there is no one right answer. A couple's sex life depends on many different factors: lifestyle, age, health of each partner, natural libido and, of course,the quality of their relationship.
Each person is an individual. What might seem like too much sex to one person may seem like too little to another. Every couple must learn their own happy medium.
Dr. Gail Saltz affirms that if sexual desire is unbalanced, the aim is to meet in the middle, having sex a bit more than one partner likes but probably a bit less than the other likes.
Experts said that there may be no one right answer to the question of how often couples should have sex. But supposedly sex ruts are becoming epidemic and sexologists advise couples trying to make sex at least once a week.
Sex seems to be quickly going away because of life bustle. Recent research revealed that when couples stop making sex, their relationships become defenseless to infidelity, anger and divorce.
Sex is the stick that keeps couples together. And without it couples become "good friends" at best or "contesting cohabitants" at worst.
It is not a secret that sex removes stress, rejuvenates, improves immunity, produces endorphins, and - in men - boosts prostate health.
Biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, Philosophiae Doctor, in her recent research supposes that people who possess regular sex and, what important is also, perfect sex, may be more successful at work. Probably it is because sex can intensify confidence and enlarge self-esteem.
Sex is a little like exercise. Once you stop doing it, it is easy to get stuck in a slump, but once we get back on track, we remember how much we missed it. People without exertion can forget how much fun sex can be. But having sex at least once a week will put them back in a regular groove.
Studies show that the difference between those relationships that succeed and those that fail. It lies in the capability to have a high proportion of positive to negative interactions. It is virtually believed that theproportion should be 5 to 1 - five positive interactions for every negative one.
