subject: How to Pleasure the Clitoris Easily [print this page] How to Pleasure the Clitoris Easily How to Pleasure the Clitoris Easily
The clitoris is the key to sexual pleasure for the majority of women. Only women are endowed with an organ that has no other purpose than to give them pleasure.
The clit is a magic sex pleasure button for women. The clit (clitoris) is very like the penis except much smaller. If you stroke it the right way, it'll give a woman lots of pleasure, and orgasm. The clit is the only organ on either human body that has sex pleasure as its sole function. It's about 1 to 2 cm long and found just above the opening to the vagina. Of course, it's very small, but when your partner is aroused, this miniature thing stretches upward and you will notice a shaft a hood that are very much like your member.
You can't just go directly to touching it. To most women, it is painful when not aroused. So you must make it your goal to bring her to the state of arousal. It's a rather lengthy process, actually, but something very pleasurable to both of you. It entails striking small conversation with her, whispering in the dark, touching and kissing and necking. When you have done substantial foreplay, reach out to her clitoris and gently ease into it.
If this is the first time you've explored your clitoris, this may not feel pleasurable. Keep trying: Repeat these strokes and others you may come up with, varying the amount of pressure you use and the speed of the strokes. Discover the area of the clitoris, the type and speed of stroke, and the amount of pressure that give you the most pleasure. Relax. As you become more comfortable with your body and your sexuality, you will be able to discover your particular trigger points.
You needn't be naked to stoke the fires of pleasure - Use your hand or other body parts to rub against her clit through your clothes. Run the palm-side of your hand over her pants or dress; do it slowly, from top to bottom and then back again, making sure you maintain an even amount of pressure throughout. Your intention here should be more of a stroke and less of a grab. You'll know you're on the right track if she starts to hump you or she arches her body in order to make contact with your hand.
Relax her - It's hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension. Give her a full body massage to tease her arousal. When you're down near her genitals, spend some time getting to know the lay of the land. A woman's clit is the small round nub located right at the top meeting point of the inner labia. It's covered by a layer of skin (kind of like a tiny foreskin) called the clitoral hood. Direct contact with the clitoris (if you were to pull back the hood) is too intense for most women, so focus your attention on the hood.
Oral sex - Instead of going straight for her clit, spend plenty of time lingering on her outer and inner lips there's so much to see and do there, and if you build the proper anticipation she'll be pushing into your face with her pelvis to show you how ready she is for more. Feel free to experiment with different kinds of licks, varying placement, pressure, and speed, but when you find one movement that sets her off, stick with it. Clits love repetition, so unless she asks you to back off, maintain the stimulation and you'll be pleasantly rewarded.
Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.
Time is of essence - Take it slow. Give her an orgasm instead of rushing for yours! Control yourself and take the time so that she has her orgasm first. If your oral sex didn't give her an orgasm, try having intercourse. Move in and out of her (touching her G-spot if you can!) until she reaches her peak and has her orgasm. Her vagina will be sensitive after her orgasm. So, when you continue your intercourse with her, she may move wildly with you to have another orgasm! A woman could have multiple orgasms without getting as tired as men!
I believe that a man should know how to make a woman experience orgasm until she is truly satisfied. This is not the only ingredient of a good relationship, but it certainly is excellent glue for binding couples closer together. When a man knows how to make love to a woman, it changes everything.
Any woman who has been constantly let down by men in bed cannot expect her fear of disappointment and her anger at the years of frustration to disappear instantly. However, these feelings will melt away quickly when she begins to have orgasms and sees that her man wants her to be as fulfilled as possible. And for men, nothing compares to having your lover respond to your touch. For couples who seek this, read also: My Story how finally I can give my wife undeniable Explosive Orgasm (you can too)
