subject: Dating Tips for Men- Dealing With Hard to Get Women [print this page] Dating Tips for Men- Dealing With Hard to Get Women
Ain't it always funny how when a woman seems to play just a little bit hard to get... you suddenly want her oh so badly. What's even more amusing is how almost all women know this instinctively and many will play it up to their advantage. Hard to get women are known for giving a guy fits, and if you don't know how to deal with a woman who is playing hard to get with you... it can be tough to figure out what you need to do to win her over.
The good thing is, when you DO learn how to deal with a woman who is playing hard to get, it's almost like you have an unfair advantage over most men. While they are sitting around, trying to figure things out... you will know exactly what to say and do. Not only will that help you to stand out in a woman's mind, but it will also keep you from coming undone and losing any attraction that she might have felt for you.
Here are a few dating tips for men that you can use on how to deal with a hard to get woman:
1. When most women play hard to get, what they really are doing is 'testing' you.
You have to be able to shake off whatever feelings of worry, doubt, and insecurity that you may be feeling from these little tests that she is giving you. If you don't, then more than likely she is going to start thinking differently of you, and that is not such a good thing. Men get tested like this all of the time by women, and more often than not- they end up losing points with her instead of gaining them.
2. Don't start chasing after her harder when she is testing you.
When a woman is testing a guy, or she is playing hard to get, the guy usually ends up chasing after her harder and harder. What happens then is it starts to look like he is needy and insecure. And these are two qualities that turn women off way more than they turn them on. If you feel like a woman is playing hard to get with you, the last thing that you should be doing is trying to chase after her harder. Ease up and pull back for a while.
3. If you know how to read a woman's signs of attraction correctly, you will know better if she is playing hard to get or just does not want you at all.
Some guys end up thinking that a woman is playing hard to get with them when the cold reality is, she just does not want him. And when it is plain as day that she does not want a guy and he keeps on pursuing her, it just ends up becoming an annoyance in her life. However, if you know how to read a woman's signs of attraction correctly, you can determing whether or not she is just playing hard to get, or if she really just does not want you. That way you do not have to waste your time pursuing a woman that you have no real chance with at all.
