subject: Protocol for Establishing a Admirable Bridal Registry at Target [print this page] Protocol for Establishing a Admirable Bridal Registry at Target
Whether you're creating a Target bridal registry or a fancy registry at Nordstrom's or Waterford Crystal, the same rules apply. You need a variety of gifts, a range of price points and some standard items that are an absolute must.
Keep reading for answers to some of your sticky Target bridal registry etiquette questions, along with some basic rules that will keep you and your guests happy.
How much should I register for?
Typically, you should sign up for more than you might normally think. Yes, it will feel presumptuous, but you'll often find that as the wedding approaches, guests will appreciate the extra choices and options. Most etiquette experts recommend calculating the number of gifts based on the number of guests at both your wedding and shower (or showers).
Ideally, your only limiting factor should be to select items that you know you will use, love and have the room for.
Should Target be my only registry?
Just having a single registry at Target will certainly make your life simple, but you might also find that they don't have the full selection you're looking for. Many brides will register at a store like Target for everyday items and then a more expensive merchant for items like fine china or stemware.
Can I have too many inexpensive items on my registry?
It is. The basic rule of thumb is to give guests a range of options. You want a sprinkling of high-end, expensive items and then an equal number of mid- and low-priced options. Having a few higher-end items on your registry allows close people like your grandparents or parents to buy a larger gift.
When you do choose inexpensive items for your registry, take care with your selections. Your friends on a budget will want to pick something that they feel you will really care about.
When do I send my cards of thanks?
You can start sending your thank you notes as soon as you begin receiving your gifts. If you're picking up your gifts from Target after guests ordered them online, Target will provide you with an itemized receipt that includes the giver's name and address.
That said, according to traditional etiquette rule, you have up to one year from the date of the wedding to write and send your thank you cards. It's also acceptable to send one card for both the wedding and shower gift, but you should mention both items in your note.
How do I tell guests that I'm registered at Target?
First, never ever put your registry information on your invitations. It's considered gauche and quite rude. Instead, you can quietly spread the word about your Target bridal registry through your parents, maid of honor and best man.
