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If you listen to popular advertising or put your faith in Hollywood myth, it would seem that the best means to attract women is to wear the correct cologne, show a little chest hair, dress well and be smooth as you first treat her badly and ignore her, then seduce her into bed, which is in popular parlance the beginning of a beautiful relationship.
If you think this is how you can attract a woman and she is going to jump on you based solely on the way you smell, give it a try. You'll have to learn through your experience. The most worthy women will see through your frantic efforts to be a Joe Hollywood sex symbol and laugh at you instead of jumping on you.
Women are not going to easily respond to the overconfident bad boy who has exuding sex appeal from his underarms any more than, they'll respond to the affectations of the self effacing, clingy nice guy who is overly indulgent. If you wish to attract women, both are bad ploys because they're insincere, and dishonesty is something which women often regard as a huge turn off.
Deceit of this kind is typically rooted in fear of being rejected - it's a form of insecurity, and when it comes to sniffing out insecurity, women are similar to blood hounds, and they hate it. You cannot cover it up with vain bravado or smarmy sentimentality; that isn't how to attract a woman. You'll need to attract her with qualities which are truly yours.
If you're an individual who is rich, has a nice sex appeal, knows how to properly conduct themselves with women, and even is a good guy, you'll be able to attract women towards you and will be able to have a long term relationship. It may be a clich for sure, but if you really want to know how to attract a woman and keep her, be who you're - including both your sexy qualities and even not so vain traits, your kind and affectionate attributes and your more self-centered flaws. It is not what you look like or who you are that influences a woman to be attracted to you, but what matters is how you behave. You will have to work on building behaviors that make women feel attracted to you.
