subject: How to Approach a Woman and Not Make a Fool of Yourself- 3 Tips for Approaching a Woman [print this page] How to Approach a Woman and Not Make a Fool of Yourself- 3 Tips for Approaching a Woman
Approaching a woman can make lots of men start to feel some anxiety, some so much so that they don't even bother to try to approach women at all. And others just tend to approach a woman in a way that makes them feel like a fool or like they don't quite know what it is that they are doing. Fact is, if you want to be able to get more dates with women, then you have to become better than the average guy at approaching women.
There are all sorts of theories on why guys feel so much anxiety about approaching a woman. And you can sit around and ponder that all you want to, but if your goal is to become better at getting women, then you need to just figure out what you should be doing. After all, the man who takes action is a lot more likely to end up getting results and in this case, that can be quite a good thing.
Here are 3 tips on how to approach a woman and not make a fool of yourself:
1) As you first notice her before you make your approach, try to make friendly eye contact with her.
Part of the reason why it can be so hard to approach a woman in a club, a bar, or any other public place is because up until the moment you get to know each other- she's a complete stranger to you. If you make friendly eye contact with her and she does likewise, it can give you a small sense of familiarity when you do walk up to her, and that can ease some of the anxiety that you may feel.
2) Strike up a conversation with her, don't just utter the first line you can think of.
Most of the women that you are going to come across dread the idea of being picked up. That does not mean that you cannot pick up a woman, it means that if the first thing that you do is drop some line on her and don't have anything to follow it up with to start a real conversation, you probably are not getting anywhere at all with her. You want to strike a real and genuine conversation with a woman, not just some line that you can think of.
3) Let your posture show that you are a confident man.
Your body has a lot to do with the way that you feel. If you feel a lot of anxiety about approaching a woman and you allow yourself to tense up and get nervous, then of course that approach anxiety is not going to just go away. Instead, you need to make yourself walk over to her with confidence and allow that confidence to build up inside so that she can 'feel' it when you get close to her.
