subject: How to Save Your Marriage by Yourself - The 6 Secrets That Can Help Your Problem [print this page] How to Save Your Marriage by Yourself - The 6 Secrets That Can Help Your Problem
Every relationship has its own problems. It may involve the relationship between daughter and mother, son and father, friendship and many others. Even if you are two happy people binding your life on each other's hand in a sacred marriage vow, problem will never fail finding its way. Problem comes to be solved, not to be avoided. In a marriage, it must be annoying finding the fact that you cannot compromise the problem together with partner because of the refraction. But keep this in your mind; even if you feel alone, you can start doing important steps to save the marriage yourself.
1. Define the problem. There is a time when we cannot even determine the clear problem. The things seem like overlapping one to another. If this is what you are experiencing, give yourself time to muse the condition. Clearly figure out the main problem you are facing. A little problem may lead to the bigger one.
2. Find out the cause. Once you have determined the main problem, try to communicate it. Tell your partner regarding the cause of the problem from your side and ask your partner to tell the reason from their point of view. Communication is eventually the magic key of every relationship problem. And be sure it will also work to your problem.
3. Try to compromise with the problem. Listen to your partner's opinion with an open-mind. Try to understand it from their point of view instead of yours only. A Compromise will not reach its final solution if both of you still think about who is right and who is wrong.
4. Never think about winning the competition. Leave your ego behind. Marriage is about the commitment of two people to face good and bad time together. Therefore, you have to be ready to compromise many things for the sake of your family. You may give in some parts of your life and so does your partner. But if you find that it is hard for your partner to cope with the situation, try to start the conversation and compromise the case first. Giving in is not because you lose, it shows that you have big heart to end the conflict.
5. Show your partner that you are going to change. By beginning the conversation and the compromise, you are able to show your partner that you are highly intending to save your marriage and your future together.
6. Get support from close friend and relatives. Facing hard problem with your marriage doesn't mean that you should keep it alone in your heart and ignore your good relationship with friends and family. They may not be able to directly solve the problem. But they will give you an additional power to face the problem and share your burden. Good relatives may be able to give you good solutions.
Every love based-marriage is worth to be saved. You may be alone at first, but just believe that you can do difference or even take your partner to finally end the problem together.
