subject: Female Body Language - Reading Body Language, An Easy To Understand Strategy [print this page] Female Body Language - Reading Body Language, An Easy To Understand Strategy
Did you know that what you say has very little to do with the messages you are communicating? In fact it has been said that over eighty percent of our communication is non-verbal. That means that your words are only 20 percent of your message being understood. So while it is very important as pick-up artists that we know the right things to say, it is four times more important we communicate correctly with our body. It is also very important that you understand the female's body language so that you can interpret her message. Reading body language really isn't as hard as people make it out to be. Here are some things to look out for.How close is she comfortable standing next to you? The rule of thumb here is about two feet. That is about an arms length. If a person always maintains this distance from you they have no interest in a romantic affair. If they commonly come in closer than that they are testing you out, this is a signal that they have an interest in you romantically. If you notice a person moves in and out of this two feet zone take that as a good sign she is interested.What direction is her body pointing? Now obviously if she isn't even looking at you this really doesn't count. What I am referring to is the angle of her body when you are engaging her in conversation. Does she lean into you or is she upright? Is she leaning to the left or the right side? While for men a woman's attractiveness dominates the decision of who we have an interest in, to a female trust is the major factor. If a female is leaning in to your conversation she has a trust with you that lets you know she has her mind thinking about more passionate times.Also when you notice her leaning in towards you take a look at her eyes. Is she looking directly at you or does she avert her gaze towards others as she is speaking to you. If she looks at others those are subtle subconscious clues that she has no interest in you. The eyes truly are the window to the soul.Finally an incredible thing you should notice about a woman is mimicking. This usually happens without her even knowing it, but it is quite easy to spot. She will use your body movements, ways of smiling, touch, and even your phrases in an effort to attain the level she thinks you are at. This is a signal that she admires you and it happens a lot more often that you think. The best way to learn to catch this is to look out for it in your own self. When you get around your friends or co-workers take notice. Do you (without meaning to) copy certain things they say or do? If you do it is a signal that you have admiration for the person you are copying. It is also a sign that the person you are copying is exuding Alpha male characteristics that make them the leader.Use these simply body language techniques to read what is on her mind so that you can be one step ahead of her in the love game. If you use this strategy effectively you will know just when to reach for her hand, touch her hair, and even kiss her.
