subject: Getting Back Together With an Ex—No Longer Needed If Your Ex Cheated on You [print this page] Getting Back Together With an ExNo Longer Needed If Your Ex Cheated on You
Breakup is at its worst especially if the reason is so serious. If you are your boyfriend already parted ways because you initiated the breakup upon knowing that he is dating another girl, it would be very hard to restore the relationship again. But there is something at the back of your mind telling you that you should get back together with him, don't heed that because you will lose self-respect. Since your boyfriend committed a mistake in having an affair with another woman, there is no more point for you to continue the relationship.
Being a MartyrYes or No?
If you are so in love with your boyfriend and you still want him back even if he did that to you, you are just fooling yourself. Hey, you don't have to be a martyr because you have the right to be happy and to be loved. Instead of crying over a spilled milk, the best thing you can do right now is to move on. Just be thankful that it happened because you no longer have to deal with it in case you are already married.
What to Do With Your Life?
You will not die for being a single. You were born alone so you can live your life alone. So, this implies that the first step on how you will be able to move on is acceptance. Upon accepting the fact that you are no longer in a relationship, you need to treat yourself by pampering it in different ways. You can go out with friends and enjoy what life has to offer.
By freeing yourself from the pain that your ex boyfriend has brought to your life, you can have the chance to grow more and enjoy what life has to offer. The best thing you can do is just to be happy for him no matter what his decision is. Always remember that it is his loss not yours. So, uphold your dignity and poise as a woman because he is not the last man on earth who can give you the happiness that you have always been looking for.
Be Thankful for the Breakup
Be thankful that the breakup happened earlier. Because of this, you can already have the chance to look for the right guy who can make your life happy and complete. You deserve happiness so experience it from the right person.
