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Nerves on a night out are more than natural. The feeling of whether you are ever going to be able to meet someone. The fear of knowing that when you do meet someone you are going to have to be able to hold a conversation with them. A conversation that will remain interesting and intriguing long enough so they don't see your true colours. Well trust me these nerves are sentiments echoed all over the world every single day. You are not alone in this. Far from it in fact.
The emotions you feel before going on a night out are only natural. The prospect of getting shot down is terrifying. And what's worse is getting a rapport with a woman and then being shot down when she gets to know you. The feeling of rejection never gets easier but it shouldn't stop you from being your true self. It shouldn't stop you from putting yourself out there and there is always the possibility that you may meet the woman of your dreams.
Life is for living. What is the point of existence if you don't at least try everything once? Even if it is not your cup of tea at least you have tried it once. If you can tell a story about something then it is definitely worth doing. The stories of life that we share say more about us than the actions or conversations we have either trivially or just in passing.
The person you are today is the makeup of the person you have been before, and the person you are today is the makeup of the person you will be in the future. And each of these facets determines how you react to a situation. So when you are looking for love you are inevitably going to look at past situations good or bad. But make the next situation you are in the one where you throw everything at it. Throw caution to the wind and determine that the experience you have after this one will be much more positive.
You cannot be liked by everyone. It just does not work like that, so don't get downhearted about being knocked back. The chemistry just wasn't there. If you maintain these standards and always remain positive, then sooner or later you will meet the girl of your dreams. And when you do meet her you will so well equipped from previous experiences, that it will be impossible to fail.
