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There is an argument which suggests keeping your options open when it comes to women and keeping your confidence up which makes you more of a catch. Women look for men who know their way around the bedroom, as well as being able to remain sensitive and good listeners amongst many other attributes. But being in touch with many different women and keeping your options somewhat open, sometimes makes you more attractive.
Women love a challenge and being able to conquer someone who is seeing other women is a great conquest. This makes you more attractive to women and that is a good thing. By being more attractive and interesting, you make yourself a prime target for a relationship. Women know you are confident and displaying your best attributes will ensure you remain a good catch.
Keeping your options open right through your relationship will ensure that you always remain confident and remain attractive to your woman. Obviously you never cheat, or lie to your girlfriend but it is important that you keep some odd flirting going to keep your confidence levels up. Because the moment that you start to depend on your girlfriend for everything is the moment that you lose your attractiveness and she might find you boring and weak.
There is nothing wrong with flirting as long as you let it go no further than that and you let them know that it can go no further. If your confidence is high and you are able to keep your girlfriend interested in you, your relationship will flourish, and you will be able to keep yourself happy throughout your relationship. There are chances that your girlfriend is also doing a little flirting to keep her self confidence up so why don't you, that way you are two self confident people in an attractive relationship.
What's important to you is important to her too. You need to remember that. Never lie about flirting, but never flaunt it. Never cheat and never let anything get too far down the line. If you do this you can expect the same thing in return from your girlfriend and your relationship will continue to blossom for the rest of your days.
Making the most of life is what it is all about, and whilst love is the main reason we are here it is important to also enjoy yourself. So keep your options open and your confidence up.
