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Anyone that has any kind of dating experience is probably guilty of doing some lame things on a date. If you are a guy who wants to make a good impression on a woman and you don't want to end up doing anything that you will look back on and get red in the face for doing it, you may want to keep reading. It's kind of funny, some people end up doing a lot of the same lame things over and over again, and they don't really realize that they are doing something wrong.
It's nothing to beat yourself up over, but doing lame things on a date is not exactly the way to win over a woman, so if you are really smitten by a particular female, you may want to take some time to really look at what you may end up doing wrong. They say that hindsight is 20/20, but you don't want to look back and see that you could have done things differently and ended up getting the girl you wanted.
Here are a few examples of some lame things to do on a date:
1. Bringing along your buddies who are just going to make her feel uncomfortable.
This is a funny thing that I've seen some guys do. Maybe they think that they need some 'moral' support or that they will look cool to a woman by being with their friends, but nine times out of ten, you are going to end up looking foolish and making a bad impression on her. Whatever you do, don't bring your buddies along on a date with a woman you really want to win over. You might do okay, but if one of them says the wrong thing to her, that will probably be the end of it.
2. Making her pay for the entire date and trying to use the 'I forgot my wallet' excuse.
Hey, if you are a cheap guy or money is tight, there are better ways to get around it than to let her pay for the entire thing. Even if she does oblige and end up paying for you, you probably are not going to be looking like quite the catch in her eyes. And just imagine the things that she is going to tell her friends. No, don't use this excuse, just come up with something that you can afford. Be creative about it when you have to be.
3. Not knowing where to go and then trying to get her to make the decision.
This is a classic lame thing that guys do when they are taking a woman out on a date. They don't make a decision on what to do and then they expect that the women should make the decision. And of course, she will end up saying something along the lines of, "I don't care, what do you want to do," and it will go on and on. Take the initiative and make a decision. Let her at least see some signs of being an alpha male and don't come off like just another lame guy with no idea on what to do.
