subject: How to Approach Women Without Hesitation and Get a Yes Response [print this page] How to Approach Women Without Hesitation and Get a Yes Response
A common mistake guys make when trying to get a date with a woman is they don't seem to pick up on when a women is not interested for some reason they try and talk her into it instead of accepting defeat and just moving on. Personally I believe it is better not to dwell on the matter as if you start dwelling chances are you will run yourself down or worse you may become obsessed with the girl.
When your approaching women try and do it with an open mind, never limit yourself or your thinking. You need to be able to accept the fact that she may not be interested in you at this point of time but the chances are higher if you are a cool relaxed guy that she may like you.
Try and read the situation before you approach her. Try and get a read her body language so as to know if she is approachable or not is always a good start. Match your actions to hers and make sure you do not read the situation in the wrong way.
Next, remember the adage that practice makes perfect. In this way no matter how many women you approach that are not interested in you, you can keep on encouraging yourself that eventually you will get it right. Moreover, have friends who are there to support you. When you are first starting out I would recommend you do not do it alone as the fear of rejection may be too much. The thing with friends is that they will always make things light and the fear or embarrassment of rejection will quickly wash away.
Also when your approach didn't go the way you hoped analyze your previous actions? Did you move too fast or come on to strongly? Were you in any way hesitant? Try and point out these flaws in your technique and rectify them.
Once again, friends will help you to accomplish this successfully. After doing so approach a new woman and use you new technique.
The next thing to remember is that when youapproaching women, try and keep the conversation light especially if it is a woman that you are meeting for the first time. As a man try entertaining her. I am sure you heard that any woman loves a man with a good sense of humor, there is a big difference between a guy with a sense of humor and a clown. Keep it simple and the conversation will flow easily.
It's ok to pay her a compliment or two subtly within the conversation just avoid making it obvious that you are simply flattering her.
