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Approaching a woman out in public is not something that most guys ever really do. Most of the time when a guy is out in public and he sees a woman he likes, he just kind of stands back and takes her in and wishes that he could actually get himself to walk up to her and say something, anything that will make her feel some kind of attraction towards him. What if you could actually be that guy that knows exactly how to approach a woman out in public and make her feel that kind of attraction towards you?
Approaching women out in public is not the same as walking up to a woman in a bar or a club. If you are out on the street and you try to make the same kind of approach that yoou would at your favorite night spot, chances are... she's not going to be flattered by you at all. You need to be a little bit more subtle and approach a woman in a way that does not seem like you are just trying to pick her up on the street.
Here are 3 major mistakes you cannot make if you want to know how to approach women out in public:
1. Never sneak up on a woman if you want to speak to her.
Chances are, if you sneak up on a woman when you are out and about, you are going to creep her out. Women are on their guard for that creepy kind of guy and that's exactly what it will look like if you are sneaking up on her. So, don't walk up from behind, make sure that she sees you and doesn't feel as though you are creeping up on her.
2. Don't drop a quick line on her and expect her to want to talk to you.
Dropping some cheesy line in a club sometimes does work because after all, some women are out there to meet guys. But, if you drop a cheesy line on a woman at a store or on the street, what do you think her impression of you is going to be? Probably not what you want it to be, that's for sure.
3. Don't make a woman feel like you are just talking to her to get a number.
This is really true for most approach situations, but especially out in public. If she thinks that all you are doing is talking to her to get a number, don't expect to get one and if you do, don't expect it to be a real number to call her on. Instead, you want to get the number in a more natural way, when the conversation is so good with her that she wants to continue on.
