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Relationships are hard to maintain in a way that the two of you involve are not facing any problems at all. But there are certain steps you can take in order to make an easy and strong relationship. With just ten easy steps your relationship will get stronger in time.
1. Keep your friends separate during your relationship. It is important that you both keep friends for yourself in the relationship. Friends you can spend a night out with and the same for her also but it is also important that you can keep some mutual friends around as well to ensure that you can spend time together as a couple with them. If you don't keep this balance then either of you may get the feeling of being trapped or smothered and having nowhere to go when you are inevitably annoyed with your partner. On the same coin if you don't keep your friends separate and things go wrong with you and your partner, your friends might have a problem of whose side to take.
2. Speak to your partner. If there is any problems get them out on the table sooner rather than later, this way you are able to get everything out there and you both know where you stand with certain aspects. If you keep things in your mind then they will become bigger than they need to be and friction will arise, so do yourself a favour and get things out there.
3. Keep the honeymoon phase alive throughout your relationship. The honeymoon period does not have to end at all contrary to popular belief and there are huge benefits from keeping the honeymoon period alive. Keep your sex life alive and take what measures you need to keep your relationship exciting and pulsating.
4. Be relaxed. Make sure that you both get along with your friends well. And if your partner wants to go out at the weekend then keep calm and just stay relaxed. She is not going to go out to cheat on you so it is important that you stay relaxed and just go with the flow. Do this and I guarantee tip no 3 will be easier to achieve because the less you argue the more blissful your relationship will be.
5. Talk about real things, if you keep your relationship flowing with decent deep conversation and talk about real things, you will keep that mutual respect between each other and not look for that type of conversation elsewhere. So talk about the news or whatever your partner wants to and listen to them, don't be lazy.
6. Make time for each other. Why not once a week go see a movie or go out for a meal, we know money is tight but think about it enjoying yourself with each other is only going to breed happiness. If you keep things uneven and free of routine you will be able to keep each other on edge which makes things more exciting. So keep quality time for each other and your relationship will be fine.
7. Cook for your partner. There is no better remedy for leaving the toilet seat up than cooking for your partner and letting them put their feet up for the evening. She will appreciate it and it's romantic so do that more and you will keep yourself sweet with your partner.
8. Trust is the obvious answer when people ask how you keep a relationship going. And even though it remains a clich it is very important to keep your trust in the relationship all the same. If you don't have trust then you don't have a basis for a relationship. So ensure you trust her because if you don't your relationship is doomed.
9. Why not join some activity classes together, or maybe you join a gym and she joins a cookery class. Without being stereotypical, it is important to keep your activities and focus on more than just the relationship. All too often each person in the relationship drops their life for their partner.
10. The most important part of these ten is to make sure that you are happy, and so is she. It is so important that you keep the relationship happy, because if you are not happy with each other, then what is the point in staying together. Raise any concerns but remain positive whatever and you will be able to keep your relationship thriving with happiness and excitement.
All these points are important but there are a hundred more points just like them. Be happy with yourself and be considerate and you will give yourself the best possible chance at keeping your relationship alive.
