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Every relationship has its ups and downs. While some break-ups cannot be salvaged, there are times where the chance of getting back together is a possibility. If you want to know how to get your boyfriend back, here are some things you can do. To begin with, show him that you have learnt from your past mistakes and are willing to make the effort to be someone he can appreciate. But at the same time, don't try and change the person you are, you will not be able to handle it for too long.
Men respond well to being reminded why they fell in love in the first place. If you get a chance to talk to him, talk to him about how you both got together, the fun times you have had and all the wonderful moments you have shared. Show him how both of you have grown with time in better individuals. Also discuss where things went wrong in your relationship and try and see if you can both work at a solution. No matter how much it hurts, work at being a support to him when he needs people around. You may be rebuffed the first time round, but there are chances that it may work.
The most difficult thing to do is to try and win one or more of his friends over. This can depend on how messy your breakup was. No matter what they will look out for his wellbeing. If you can convince them that you have changed for the better, then you may seem like a changed person and good for their friend once again.
You will also need to be a little manipulative. Think of all the good times you have shared and the circumstances and try and replay those with him in it. Chances are he will remember what a good time he had the first time around and consider reconciliation. Try and look the best you can, perhaps in a completely different way from how he remembers you. This new look can also complement the new you and help you get your boyfriend back.
