subject: Does Your Story Make You Who You Are? [print this page] Does Your Story Make You Who You Are? Does Your Story Make You Who You Are?
We all have a story, our story, but does that story give us our identity, is that who we are? Well this is evidence that we can be whoever and whatever we want to be, we can simply write a new story!
Many of us make the mistake of believing our story to be our identity. The truth is, it is not our truth. It is a story that we hold in our subconscious mind, it is not real. We made it up when we were fearful!
If something not so nice happened to us, we take on all sorts of beliefs and emotions surrounding the event and we hold them within our subconscious mind, our blueprint, we believe they make us who we are. Every time we are faced with some similar situation, we behave as we would have done in the earlier experience, or we spend our whole lives avoiding things and run with fear.
For instance; If you had an experience early in life which left you feeling like a victim, potentially this creates your future as a victim. Who wants to feel like a victim for the rest of their lives?
Mostly we are unaware of these patterns, and it is a shock to find the real truth. But we can change the story.
Telling The Story.
We may tell this story to anyone who listens because we still carry the pain and the belief, and every time we tell it we re-affirm that this is who we are!When we continually do this we are attracting more of the same, it is in our mind and our belief system, so naturally the law of attraction gives us what we think about. More experiences of being victimised!
That is quite scary isn't it? To think that we are actually responsible for bringing more pain into our lives! Actually being the victim that we don't want to be? Especially when we have been doing it for 10-30 years or more.
Ok It Is Time To Stop
This story is not the real truth, it is just the way we have chosen to react to an experience, a script that we have created, and we can re-write this script. Some people have lived this way for so long that they actually are fearful of changing their script, they have no idea who they will become, in this case their script feels safe for them.
We can never heal our pain while we still live with this script.The first step is accepting that we are doing this, although it is shocking to discover that we have done this to ourselves it is enough to get us moving to the next step and setting our self free from the chains of past pain.If you think this is you, then have the courage to set your self free, learn how to walk your life in a new positive story!
