subject: DEEP CLIT: How to Find Her Clitoris If It's Small or Deeply Situated - Clitoral Stimulation and Illustration [print this page] DEEP CLIT: How to Find Her Clitoris If It's Small or Deeply Situated - Clitoral Stimulation and Illustration
"I can't find her clitoris. She doesn't seem to have one."
Well, as a therapist, I've heard this before. Many men have never seen their woman's clit. In fact, many women aren't even certain where their own clitoris is.
For men who are used to internet photos and outright porn, the first time they are making love with a real woman can be confusing in many ways.
"She's so sensitive," complained Fred H, the young man who couldn't find his girlfriend's clit. "I don't know what to do to please her. I'm scared of losing her."
And it's a problem shared by older, more experienced men.
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Men who are used to seeing pictures and videos of women's genitals where everything is out in the open are often confused when they first make love to a woman with a deep clit.
Women's vulvas come in all sizes, shapes and even placement. Some women's labia and clitoris are in the open. Some are deeply hidden.
Her vulva consists of outer and inner labia. Situated at the top cleft of the vulva is the clitoral hood. Beneath this is the clitoral head, or glans, the "magic bean" that becomes engorged with blood when sexually excited. Usually, but not always, the erect glans will peek out from under its hood.
What, then, is the problem?
Some women may have a full Mound of Venus (the fleshy hill just above the vulva) or full outer majora -- especially plus size and supersize gals. Other women have a very small clit.
Others may have a deeply situated clitoris. This is only a problem if a guy wants to open her valva and see her love bud. If she gets full sexual satisfaction from their lovemaking, then he should be happy for her.
Of course, she may say that she isn't getting much pleasure from intercourse. This probably isn't a problem as such. Sex surveys have traditionally revealed that as high a number as 60% of women cannot achieve an orgasm from sexual intercourse alone -- especially Missionary position. This is common in women with a small, hidden clitoris. However, 92% percent of women who have had oral sex performed on them, report achieving orgasms. So you can see a solution to this problem.
And you can take some solace in knowing that those women with huge out-in-the-open clitorises (the ones you see online) are not always having wild sexual encounters. In fact, these gals often find that through constant exposure of their clit, years of masturbation or long use of vibrators, that their clits have become insensitive. They lose much of their feeling there. That's why you are hearing so much about G-spot, vaginal and anal orgasms. These are fun, but clitoral orgasms are by far a woman's most intense climaxes!
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The important thing to remember is that women with deeply situated clitorises are very sensitive there. It takes patience and knowledge to give her full sexual satisfaction. But take joy in your woman's oversensitive clit. Once you have learned just where her clit is and how to properly stimulate it -- you will take her to Paradise!
To learn all about exactly where her Clit is situated and complete, satisfying Clitoral Stimulation, see "How to Stimulate the Clitoris - Clitoris Illustration"
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