subject: How to Attract Back Your Girlfriend- 3 Big Mistakes In Trying Too Hard to Win Her Back [print this page] How to Attract Back Your Girlfriend- 3 Big Mistakes In Trying Too Hard to Win Her Back
If your heart is bleeding over breaking up with a girlfriend and you want to find a way to win her back, pay attention. Countless guys have made some really big mistakes in trying to attract back an ex girlfriend and you don't want to do the same. Just imagine what it will feel like to be able to win her back, and let that feeling keep you on the right track. As long as you know what mistakes you need to avoid in making, you can win her back and keep her attracted to you.
Here are 3 BIG mistakes in trying too hard to win back an ex girlfriend that you cannot make:
1. You cannot make the mistake of trying to use money as a way to leverage yourself back in the picture.
If you have gotten the idea that maybe you can buy her just the right piece of jewelry and that will do the trick, you may want to think again. Guys make this mistake all of the time and they end up spending way too much money on jewelry that she will never wear and even if she does, it's not going to be what convinces her to come back to you. Unless she is a gold digger, in which case, you may not want to have her back in the first place.
2. You cannot make the mistake of gossiping about the break up to her friends with the hopes that they will help you to get her back.
Gossiping about the way that she broke up with you and about how badly you want to get back together with her is not the way to go. Not only is this not really a 'manly' thing to do, it's also usually going to lead to her hearing the wrong things or getting the wrong impression. If you want to attract back your girlfriend and keep her around, fight the urge to talk about her too much or with too many people.
3. Do NOT make the mistake of thinking that you can just copy what they do in the movues to win her back.
If only it was as easy as they make it seem in film or on television. The guy usually pours out his heart and says just the right thing to make his ex girlfriend feel like he must be the only one for her. In the real world, it usually does not happen like that. Usually the guy will pour out his heart, his ex girlfriend does not know what to make of it, and she just figures that she is better off being single.
