subject: 5 Illusive, Phenomenal, and Daring Methods for getting Your Ex Back [print this page] 5 Illusive, Phenomenal, and Daring Methods for getting Your Ex Back
Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex, but is this really the best step to take?
Here are 5 of the most illusive, phenomenal, and daring methods for getting your ex back that you can use. Using these 5 methods will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. You will see a renewed vigor in yourself and it will help to rebuild your confidence and self-esteem.
Number One: Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.
Number Two: Shorten communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counter-intuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most daring steps when getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was. Just remember people want what they can't have.
Number Three: Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this valuable facet of you, plus it might possibly invigorate them so that you can put together any lines of interaction which were lacking when the split up came into play.
Number Four: Leave! Yes, leave! Get out of there. Separate yourself from your ex. This is a phenomenal strategy that will allow you time by yourself. Get in touch with friends and family and strengthen the bond you have with them. Develop a community system and revel in some entertainment in your own life. This might not necessarily mean you'll want to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do have to be getting out and also enjoying your time and effort along with your good friends. It will not only be beneficial for you, however it may also help influence your ex that they lost a gem.
Number Five: Simply just be genuine. There seemed to be a really good reason for why you and your former mate had a relationship to begin with, so resume getting to know yourself better. It will give your ex lover time to see why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
