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So by now, if you're still reading my article then you trust in what I have to say and you're one step closer to save my marriage. I will show you exactly what I did to save my marriage but there are many different ways to take this approach. You see, depending on your personality, there's a method to suit your needs. Now I can't provide all of them because I simply do not have enough space on this article to write them all down; so I will provide the link to the book that helped to save my marriage.
First, answer these next questions:
1.) My husband gets angry easily.
2.) My wife gets angry easily.
3.) My wife / husband always yell at me.
4.) We argue of little stuff.
5.) My husband / wife want space.
6.) My wife / husband show no affection for me.
7.) My wife / husband doesn't tell me he or she loves me anymore.
8.) I found dating websites on my husband or wife's computer.
9.) Your husband picks fights with you.
10.) Your wife picks fights with you.
11.) You fight about money issues.
12.) Your husband doesn't talk to you anymore.
13.) Your wife doesn't talk to you anymore.
14.) Is it too late to save my marriage?
15.) Your husband / wife starts making mean comments about your weight or comments about what you eat all of the time.
(This is only because they are saying things that they do not really mean)
Well guess what, if you agreed with most of the questions above then there is a great chance to save my marriage. Learning the tricks to save my marriage isn't hard at all actually.
What you agreed to above are only minor things that happen in a marriage. The first few years, your marriage is lovely but after five to six years that love euphoria disappears. What happens is that the two of you become too comfortable with each other. Many times, they can resolve on their own, but sometimes they can destroy a marriage.
This is what I did:
1.) Learn your boundaries.
(Looking through their cell phones, looking over their shoulders when they're on the internet, or calling them a lot when they are out will only make matter worse. What you are doing is pushing them away from you.)
2.) Do not show any affection or emotions.
(After a little time of ignoring them, your husband or wife will start to feel needy. Don't give in and don't show any affection when they try to ask for it. Remember, you want them to try and fall back in love with you and feel the need of your love again. They will start to miss the person that they married.)
3.) Slowly make your move.
(Now remember, you're the one trying to save the marriage and by now if your husband or wife really loves you then he or she should be at the palm of your hand.)
4.) Make a movie night throughout the week
(At this point, your husband or wife is appreciating your company. So what a better way to spend time together than Try and pick a night or two out of the week to make it your movie night. This will not only make them feel good, but also subconsciously, remind them of the time the two of you used to watch late night movies and how great it felt. A great service to use is Netflix because they have over 100k movie and TV show titles to choose from. Almost any movie you can think of is on Netflix)
5.) Dinner
(It's important that you and your spouse do something romantic together at least twice a month. A suggestion that I used to help save my marriage was a romantic dinner. We would go out to a nice romantic dinner twice a month and dress up nice. This is not only a nice experience, but it's psychological because these are things that the two of you used to do.)
6.) Avoid arguments when they arise
(Once you notice that an argument is about to happen, either doing your best to withdraw from it or learn how to reason with your husband or wife. What I learned when I was trying to save my marriage was not to go to bed angry with each other. Say look honey, "I know you're angry about this, but can we talk about this in the morning please?"
By the sixth step, your marriage should be on its right path. If it is not, then you may need to seek other methods to save your marriage. The above tricks are what helped save my marriage and I wanted to share my success with you. Now earlier I mentioned that there are several methods to choose from to save your marriage. Like I said, I can't list all of them because there is just simply too much stuff to write about.
Below I've provided the link to the book that saved my marriage and I have linked special promotional offer through Netflix for you too which you can only get from me since because of someone I know in the company.
I hope this information or the book that I linked to you below will help save your marriage. If you find this article to be useful, then please pass this on to someone you know that may be going through the same problems. The only thing I ask is that none of this information is to be altered.