subject: Can You Get Your Ex Back by Changing How You Look? [print this page] Can You Get Your Ex Back by Changing How You Look?
There are all kinds of things you might have tried in an effort to get your ex back. One of the first things that many people think of is changing how they look. But, will changing how you look really make an impact on how your ex sees you?
This is really common with women so let's look at how it works with women. Women are often extremely insecure about how they look. When compared with Hollywood smoke and mirrors it's simple to get a real complex about how you look. Real women get older. Real woman have flaws. Real women compare themselves to every other woman they come across. Real men do not. They may look and enjoy the occasional eye candy but he married you because he thought you were beautiful, bright, funny, and fun to be around. Changing your look might get his attention but not because he thought you were unattractive to begin with.
But here is what changing how your look can do for you that might help you win your ex back in the end. Men find confidence in a woman incredibly sexy. It's true. It's one of the biggest turn-ons that most men have. Changing how you look might not turn his head but changing how YOU feel about how you look will certainly get his attention. Crazy isn't it? But it's true. The one thing you can do that will get your man's attention in a big way fast is to start FEELING sex and attractive. When you feel that way about yourself it shines through in everything you do just as feeling unattractive limits everything you do. So, yes, if you really want to get your ex back changing how look can help but not in the way you think.
Of course the challenge of getting his attention so that he will notice you still remains after you've changed how you look and how you feel about yourself. There is one technique that will get his attention and can put you in a prime position to really put your "best face" forward with your ex.
Call him up at a time when you know he won't answer the phone. Leave a message with him thanking him for what he did for you. Don't be specific in your message. Be vague but make sure you have something specific in mind or this could backfire big time. Tell him you have a gift you'd like to give him to thank him but you'll only give it to him in person. Ask if there is somewhere you can meet to give it to him.
He'll call back and want to know more and try to talk you into revealing details but don't. Make him meet you in person to find out. His curiosity will drive him up a wall and the idea of a gift will make it even more difficult for him to resist. He'll agree to meet. If not at first, he will eventually as long as you stick to your guns and tell him nothing.
