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It's true. Tears are never a good idea as a weapon to get your ex back after a breakup. Tears are too scripted for many women and men learn to distrust them over time. In fact, some men find tears to be the biggest kind of turnoff in the world. But, if tears aren't effective tools to help you get your ex back then what can you use to bring back your boyfriend after he broke up with you?
Breakups are tough. No one likes to be dumped. It hurts! Your heart is broken and the only thing you want right now is for the pain to stop. Does that sound about right? But the pain won't suddenly evaporate when you get your ex back. It's going to take a little more than that. The thing about breakups is that no one likes breaking up any more than you like getting dumped at least not anyone worthy of your love. It was a hard decision to make and definitely a sign that there is trouble in happily-ever-after-land. You might not want to admit that there were problems in the relationship but most guys don't just wake up one day and decide "I think I'll dump my girlfriend today."
Knowing this doesn't make it any easier to be on the receiving side of a relationship breakup. It's hard and it's OK to cry. Really it is. But you shouldn't even consider using your tears as any sort of weapon in an effort to win your boyfriend back. It's not likely to work at all and it may do more damage to your efforts than you could ever imagine. Your best bet is to only cry when he's not around if you really want to be successful in your goals of getting your ex back.
You can get your ex back. It's true. It's not even all that hard to do as long as you know the right series of steps to follow. I know you're ready to end the pain once and for all. You're ready to get your relationship back on track and well on the road to happily ever after.
