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Different people try different things to save their relationships. Some of them succeed. But, most of them fail. It's not that the relationships were bad. It's not that the people involved in the relationships were bad. It's just that most people do the wrong things when trying to save them. You don't want that to happen with your relationship. You want to write a different ending for your relationship that sounds a lot more like "happily ever after." That is why it's so important that you do something a little different than the rest so that you can successfully get your ex back.
You don't have to move heaven and earth to get your ex back. You don't have to make blood sacrifices or bargains with the devil. You don't have to go to expensive psychics or even purchase extravagant gifts for the object of your affections. In fact, these things will do little to help you succeed where so many others have failed. The one thing you NEED to do will set you apart from the others though because it will require you to do something very difficult. It will require you to go against everything your heart is SCREAMING for you to do.
But, if you manage to do this, you'll enjoy the positive results of saving your relationship that so few others have managed to do in your situation. What is this one secret you need to know so that you can successfully get your ex back? You need to back down and back away. You'll need to get far away in fact. It will not be easy to do because everything in you is screaming get closer but that is the wrong move for you to make right now if you really want to save your relationship.
I warned you it wouldn't be easy. You might even think it sounds a little bit crazy. Sometimes though doing something that seems a little bit wild and crazy is just what you need to shake things up and work things out. There are reasons for backing off at a time like this. Your ex is overloaded with emotions right now.
There is a lot of chaos going on in the mind and heart of your ex. Your presence only contributes more and that can lead to emotional overload. Distance gives your ex time away from the chaos of the emotions and the opportunity to clear his or her head to see things more clearly. This is time that your ex can come to appreciate how much your presence meant in his or her life and how empty that life is without you as a constant presence. That will never happen though if you are a constant presence.
