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Want to know how to get your ex back without making promises you know you'll never be able to keep? You know the drill. You've seen it before. Other couples break up and then make up. The problem is that it isn't long before the relationship is on the outs again. That's because, too many times, people in this situation make promises they know that can't keep in order to save the relationship. But it only provides a temporary fix. You want something a little more permanent and stable to help you get your ex back.
The thing is, the biggest temptation you're going to face when trying to get your ex back is the temptation to bargain and plead with your ex to save your relationship. You'll say just about anything to get your ex back because you want it so bad. You'll even agree to all kinds of wild and crazy things like never leaving another pair of socks on the floor again (you know, things you can never really do) because you want to make it work so much. Unfortunately that can lead to a whole host of new problems for your relationship and will leave you trying to figure out how to get your ex back all over again before you know it.
Other couples might seem to make each other happy by making these empty promises but you want something more for your relationship, right? You do not have any interest in building your new relationship on promises you know you can't keep. You want this second chance for the two of you to be better and building it on anything less than the truth makes that impossible. There's no reason to get your ex back and do all the work involved if you're going to be in the same shape again a few months down the road because you can't live up to the new expectations you've given your ex, right?
So, you need to plan that works without making those empty promises. It really is the only way to go when your relationship is the one that's on the line.
So where do you begin? How do you get things started in the right direction to really get your ex back without doing what has failed for so many other relationships? You learn the art of writing the perfect second chance letter.
