subject: How To Live Authentically, Confidently And In Integrity [print this page] How To Live Authentically, Confidently And In Integrity
Do you know the single greatest impediment to living authentically, confidently and in integrity is fear? Do you know many harbour a fear of rejection, not being loved, not being wanted, not belonging, abandonment, being ostracized, being alone, being unwanted, feeling humiliated, failure, success, being personally honest with one's self, appearing foolish, making mistakes and so on? Do you know that fear is generated by subconsciously stored negative memories that condition us to endure limited and unfulfilling lives? Finally do you know it is now possible to completely and permanently erase those negative memories and be set free?
Negative memories are associated with painful emotions that can become re-triggered in the present whenever an event similar to the past trauma occurs. For instance suppose one was abandoned as a child and holds within the memory of the event along with the pain of the abandonment.
Associated with the memory is a fear of re-experiencing the old pain of abandonment which supposedly helps the individual to ward off any potential events that might re-trigger those old feelings. At first this fear might seem like a protective "internal force" that supposedly gives the individual some measure of control over their environment.
For instance it might motivate one to be sensitive and caring towards others so that those others will never abandon them. In this way one might be made to feel more secure, safe and at ease. Sadly, it conversely creates a situation where the individual needs to be constantly on guard of ever offending important others.
This leaves them fearfully avoiding fully being and expressing themselves honestly, authentically, confidently and therefore undermines their integrity. What's more it is tantamount to being "dishonest" (albeit supposedly in the spirit of kindness and love) with those important others and if found out can lead to the feared outcome itself i.e. abandonment!
A much better strategy is to erase the negative memory of the abandonment thereby also dissipating the fear that severely constrains one's authentic self expression. When this happens confidence rises and one is able to honestly be themselves. This not only makes them more attractive, as a person of integrity to others, it also serves to fortify their relationships.
A new coaching process that is accessible to anyone in the world who can read and write has the capability to completely and permanently erase negative memories. If you would like to learn more about this so you can begin to set yourself free kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free e-copy of my new book and/or request a free introductory 1 hour telephone/Skype consultation.
