subject: How To Get Girls - What You Need to Quit Doing To Pick Up Girls! [print this page] If you want to pick up girls, there are a couple of things you really, really need to avoid unless you want to spend another night with Mrs. Palmer...
Ditch the Lame Pick Up Lines
Everyone - in their heart of hearts - knows that pick up lines are a waste of time. Most of them are cheesy. Very, very few of them are funny. Some are downright offensive. But most of them are just totally lame and make you look like a weiner. So why do guys still go out there and use them when they meet girls? I think that a lot of guys try to pick up women using canned lines, routines, memorised "patterns," and all sorts of other garbage - despite knowing it's probably not going to work! - because they don't know what else to say to women.
There's a very strong idea out there that a guy has to "entertain" a girl to win her interest - and therefore have any chance of getting her into bed. Total nonsense! Yes, there are guys whose idea of how to get girls is to bedazzle them. And these guys do, actually, attract girls with their magic tricks and so on. But it's short-lived because women aren't prone to respect guys who feel they have to "entertain" just to win the "priveledge" of being able to talk to them.
Stop Being a Butt-Kisser
Look, I'm not saying talk to women like they're truck drivers. Or treat them like dirt in an attempt to show what a man you are (Sidenote: That's actually just showing what a little boy you are). What I mean is stop kissing butt and bending over backwards to try and please her. Yes, she might be hot, but she may not actually be a nice person. Do you want to compromise yourself just for "the chance" to chat up a hottie? Someone you might find out later is total Hellspawn?
So What's the Solution?
You want to know how to attract beautiful women. The answer is simple: Be a man. You are a man, right? Just talk to women as if she were some other guy you'd just met; only without the swearing and references to sport and porn. (Sidenote: Any or all of those things might come later, but are a real turn-off for a gal the first time she meets you.)
Don't talk about your job for 3 hours. You do have a life outside work, right? Talk about that and then ask her whether she's into kayaking or rock-climbing or whatever. She may be, but she might be interested in trying it. And if she likes you, you've then got the opportunity to ask her out on a date right there! Nothing creepy, no rehearsed "routines," just normal conversation.
Warning! Warning!
Of course, you can't really just chat to her all night as if she's some regular dude in your football team. Unless you want to play football with her! I'm betting you'd like to play some other kind of sport with her, though, so after you've developed a bit of rapport, you do need to change gears and escalate the attraction.
When you first go over to talk to her, though, forget about all the scripted nonsense you've been told to blurt out. You'll just end up looking like a fool. Instead, talk to her like a normal human being and see if there's anything there that you like.
If there isn't, no harm done. You didn't compromise who you are and you didn't perform for her like a circus animal. If there is, great! You can continue to build the attraction, look for the flirting signs, and go from there. Behave like a normal man who can hold a normal, interesting conversation and then build attraction and you'll be picking up women in no time!
How To Get Girls - What You Need to Quit Doing To Pick Up Girls!
