subject: How To Attract Women - Make The Nonverbal Communication Work For You [print this page] How To Attract Women - Make The Nonverbal Communication Work For You
When it comes to learning how to attract women, it's all about what you say, right? Most seduction guides focus almost exclusively on this part of the game, and that's all that it is - a part of the game. There's much more to it than just the smooth things you say. Nonverbal communication is essential for attracting women, and here are the reasons why. Hope you'll find these very helpful.
It's All Part Of The Plan
Seduction isn't about a bunch of pick-up lines and eyebrow winks. What makes a seduction strategy that works different from one that doesn't is that it follows a logical progression. The whole thing from start to finish is designed to position the woman into having sex with you. This is not done suddenly; you don't just leap across the room and try to plant a kiss on her. Instead, it's done by gradually moving things into place. Aside from the words you use to seduce her, your body language, spatial positioning and touching are going to be important for making key transitions.
Nonverbal Communication Creates Sexual Comfort
Nonverbal communication sub-communicates sex. By gradually doing this, you build up sexual comfort with the woman. What you're doing is being sexual with her already but with your clothes on. You're communicating this sexual comfort through several channels of communication at once. In effect, you've already started a sexual dialog with her. You will both know that you're on the same page with the other, and then there will be no misunderstandings when you move into the bedroom.
Body Language Is Powerful
Body language, touching and spatial positioning are important because they're powerful. Most of this nonverbal communication passes "under the radar." It's usually more influential than what we say to one another because we don't consciously notice it. What you're doing is giving her hints about what you want, and she's receiving and responding with her wants without even realizing it. It's as if your two bodies are communicating directly with each other while the minds are chatting away in a conversation of their own.
The three keys to nonverbal communication are spatial relevance, touching and body language. These are three methods in learning how to attract women that go far beyond speech. Nonverbal communication lays the groundwork for you so that when it's time to move in for that kiss, it's easy and natural.
