subject: How To Talk To Women Using Bait, Hook, Reel, Release, Rapport [print this page] How To Talk To Women Using Bait, Hook, Reel, Release, Rapport
This is a little known technique that helps in how to talk to women so that things escalate. It's part of "sexual framing," which includes a whole bunch of different devices that attract women to you. It works something like this:
The Bait. The bait is a question so that we can get something to work with. Use something that's a positive quality in women. For example, ask her, "Are you a good friend?"
The Hook. Her answer is the hook. The answer will give you a bit of information that you'll use for the reel, which is a compliment. There is not much chance that she's going to say she's not. When she says that she is a good friend, we're going to reel her in.
The Reel. The reel is a compliment based on what she told us. We've gotten a bit of information about how she sees herself, and now we're going to tell her exactly what she WANTS to hear us say about her.
At this point you should go on and on about how much you think people who are good friends are cool. It might go something like this, "Oh, that's awesome. I really like women who can be good friends. I think the way you treat your friends is a reflection on how you treat everyone. I always figure that a woman with lots of true, loyal friends must be a good person. If a girl doesn't have a lot of close friends, I always wonder why."
You've just told her exactly what she wants to hear about herself. You've used that information and now you're getting her to accept your statement about her, or frame.
The Release. The release is only necessary if she's taken aback by what you said. If she reacts a little strangely, deflect it with a sudden non sequitur like, "You suck then, I hate you!" She won't be accepting that and it will ruin her train of thought so that she'll forget about the uncomfortable feeling.
Rapport. Finally, you ask her a question that elaborates on the topic. For example, how long has she known her best friend? After she answers, or if she takes a long time to answer, start telling her about your best friend. The purpose of this is to show that you two are very similar, thus building rapport.
This is a proven technique in how to talk to women, and it's successful beyond measure. Give it a try next time you're out and see how well it works.
