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Who would have thought, that your husband's cheating could actually help improve your sex life at home? It's true though. Many couples who have gone through the pain of a cheating spouse find that there are some benefits that come from the experience.
One of the benefits you might learn to appreciate is an improved sex life as a result.
But, HOW can you have better sex now that you know your husband's been cheating on you? You would think that would make things WORSE, wouldn't you?
There's one really GREAT thing that happens in the aftermath of a cheating husband. You start TALKING to each other.
This isn't the same old mundane conversations you've had in the past. Now you're talking about heart and soul kinds of things. You're opening up and sharing deep emotional issues that you may not have talked about together in YEARS.
What does this have to do with your sex life? Well some of the things you start talking about are fantasies, likes, dislikes, and things you want to do and try. Not just in the bedroom. Not just related to sex. But things that are more intimate and that bind the two of you closer together.
It's true that the more open you relationship is the better the sex will be. The more you're willing to take risks together, to try new things together, to be there for each other, the greater the sex will be.
It isn't about going outside of your comfort zone or asking your partner to try something new though there can be many benefits to those things as well. This is about opening up your relationship to infinite possibilities.
When you are able to open up and reconnect like that, there's no limit to how great everything about your marriage including the sex can be.
But did you know that there is one thing that really drives your sex life and helps make it better than ever before once your husband has cheated? It's this strange phenomenon where women are always comparing themselves to other women.
You don't have any CLUE how good or bad the sex was between your husband and the other woman. There is some part of you that suspects (or FEARS) that it was pretty good. So, you compete with the other woman on a subconscious level because you believe that if the sex is good enough you won't have to worry about trying to get your ex back or put your marriage back together again.
Wouldn't that make the sex better for HIM? How is that better sex for YOU, right? Well oddly enough, sex is one of those things that you often get as good as you give. The harder you try to make it a fireworks night for him the greater the odds are that he will return the favor for you.
