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Why is it music has such an inspiring and uplifting effect on us? Especially when it comes to love. We associate certain songs with great nights of our life, moments of serenity and past loves. It can uplift us as well as bring us down in a single moment or lyric.
With love it is customary for a couple to have their own song. The song they had their first kiss to, the song they have their first dance as a married couple, all songs in a relationship have a significant meaning to them. The way in which it can uplift a relationship can even bring you closer in a time of sadness and depression.
It is important to remember your songs, and women especially hold it dear to them when it comes to anniversaries and valentine's days, and you can earn serious brownie points by playing the song at the right moment. Making a CD with some of these songs on can be an instant way back into your lady's good books.
There can be many different reasons to which a song can be attributed to a relationship, and it is not always when you heard it. The lyrics and meaning of a song can have a much bigger affect on why you hold it as dear as oppose to when you heard it. Maybe the song speaks of lust and seduction and it could remind you of your first night together. Maybe it talks of a woman feeling down and a man rescuing her, and perhaps you were this man to your woman.
Other reasons are a song you heard the first night you had sex, or the night you consummated a child if you have kids. More trivial reasons like the time you went to a certain place can also be the meaning of something special.
Adversely a song can have a huge effect on a break up of a relationship. Either a song you heard just when you were breaking up, or a song you associate with a negative moment can spur negative memories in your mind. The song lyrics again have an effect. If the song you are listening to speaks of betrayal or a lost love, and it refers to an experience you have just had you will probably turn the song off.
Whatever the effect a song has on you, it is revealing and inspiring how much of an effect a song can have on you.
