subject: Creativity of Dates Prevents You From Just Being Mates [print this page] Creativity of Dates Prevents You From Just Being Mates
It is best to be creative with your first three dates to inspire confidence in your ability to woo someone. Anyone can decide where the date is going to be but it is imperative that you make them creative choices on neutral ground and with the ability to go on from them afterward if things go well, for example why not go go-karting it's an ice breaker you can have a laugh and there is the ability to go on to somewhere else afterward, the same can be said from Ice skating and mini golf. Especially Ice skating where you can accidentally pull her down but then at the last minute save both of you, you can be the hero.
Keeping your dates fresh and exciting keeps the romance exciting as well and ensures that things don't become stale and you realize you are just better off being friends. None of us want to be put in the friend zone, it's a lonely dark place that very few people get out of, in fact it almost leads to you having resentful thoughts and you don't end up being friends anyway, so with that in mind be swift with your approaches, don't hold anything back and make sure that if you do like this girl who you treat well and seize the opportunity whilst it's there because once your window of opportunity has gone believe me you won't get another one. Why not take her on a date doing something that she has never done before this will get her thinking that you are creative and you are able to think outside the box unlike all the other dweebs she's dated before you. Make your mark.
It's worth noting that woman relate a lot to how a guy dances to how good he is in bed, so unless you dance like Bert or Ernie it's worth taking her somewhere where you can indulge in some light non embarrassing dancing that isn't too taxing in terms of skill or effort, you don't want to be sweaty now do you. Why not take her out on a boat and pull up on a nice beach(if you live by the ocean of course) where you can have a moonlit picnic, trust me all this will work and as long as you have the personality to back these dates up it's so worth being creative to get that step ahead.