subject: How to Stop a Breakup - 3 Immediate 911 Actions to Take! ASAP! [print this page] Making the determination on how to stop a breakup is not always a black and white simple to answer question, because as you are fully aware there could be a wide range of reasons of why and how the relationship got to the breaking point in the first place. With that being said, I will do my very solutions that you can use right now to get some relief; with the goal being healing to you first and then you can more soundly focus on the relationship. ** Mental Shock & Block - This is where your thinking is unclear and fuzzy. Your mind is overwhelmed with roughly 2 zillion thoughts a second. (at least it feels like that.)You may not be remembering important details too well and the all stress of this event is causing you challenges with your memory and your attitude. ** What the Experts Tell Us - At this critical stage of the relationship chances are very high that both of you may be not at the best of attitudes and judgment. You need to back away from any more conversations on the matter because there is way too much negative energy in the air! ** The Positive News - Almost any relationship can be healed and restored, IF people are willing to learn, grow and work towards self-improvement. Personal growth and self-improvement actions provide us with a bigger database of knowledge and wisdom to operate from, thus helping our work, our play and our love life. 3 Immediate 911 Actions to Take for How to Stop a Breakup 1.> A Big Fat Chill Pill: That means that the both of you need to call for time-out and digest all of this and get peaceful and quiet in your own minds. If you need to cry then cry! Cry a lot! You may have to even entertain the possibly of acceptance that it could be truly over. BUT, do not go there yet! 2.> Zone-Out Sessions: Basically go meditate and reflect on everything that has happen. Answer a simple question at those times for yourself: what are you attempting to get out of this relationship and what are you willing to do to make that happen? Be rationale and clear; if the person is right for you, you should not have to do anything that is considered unethical, immoral and/or repulsive to your nature, nor should they! 3.> Relationship Self-Improvement: how can you ever learn what to do and what not to do in relationships if you are not constantly nourishing your mind with a steady consumption of relationship building information. This is the best way in the world to help your self become stronger and more knowledgeable about how to stop a breakup. Of course, this is really just the beginning phase where the concentration of effort starts on you first; that is because you are the one searching out a solution on how to stop a breakup, so it only makes practical and wise sense that we start with healing your heart and mind first! Get excited! Get pumped up! And, I will be rooting for you in your healing and restoration efforts!
How to Stop a Breakup - 3 Immediate 911 Actions to Take! ASAP!
