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It would be a wise use of time to spend time teaching your child how to play sports. It opens many doors into different conversations and situations that may present teaching opportunities for the parent.
Anytime you have a teaching opportunity there is also an opportune moment to bond with your child.
Learning to recognize and take advantage of this opportunity will greatly benefit you throughout your child's growing up years. Being able to establish stability and trust will give your child confidence in their ability to achieve in life.
By spending time to teach your child sports you will be showing by your actions that you love them. Being involved together in sports is also a great way to show your child exercise is an important aspect of life.
Make sure to keep patience in check at all times so your child does not think you are frustrated with their ability to play well or not. Getting the coordination down takes time for most children, developing talents takes practice and dedication.
Be certain to allow your child to be part of the decision making. It is important for them to know you respect what they want or feel.
Choosing a sport can be a process that continues for a while as the child learns what their natural abilities are and also becomes familiar with the ones they have to put a little more effort into.
It is ok to help your child make a decision by offering friendly advice but never be pushy. It is important for them to feel they have a choice.
As you try out different sports pay attention to what your child likes most and let them be in charge of throwing out the ones they do not want to pursue.
If at any time you become irritated with the process of learning a sport with your child make sure to cool off before returning to the situation so you do not lose focus of why you are there. You are there for your child and yourself to build a healthy and strong relationship bond.
Keep your focus where is it most important, on your child. If you need to take a quick break to run on the treadmill or around the block then do it so you can return with a clear mind.
