subject: How to Attract Women- Tips to Help You Deal With Women Who Are Hard to Get [print this page] How to Attract Women- Tips to Help You Deal With Women Who Are Hard to Get
Ever come into contact with a woman you really wanted to hit it off with and she just came across as being one of those hard to get women? If so, then you probably know that when a woman plays hard to get, it can drive a guy wild. That sense of her being a real challenge can suddenly loft her into being the only woman you want to be with, and if you don't know how to deal with a woman who is hard to get... it can lead to a lot of frustrations.
Now, sometimes guys will think a woman is hard to get when really, she is just hard for them to read. Meaning, they end up misinterpreting the way that she shows her attraction and they assume that she is trying to be coy or play hard to get with them. So, you really want to look at the situation and see if maybe that is what is really happening.
Here are a few tips on how to deal with women who are hard to get:
1. More than anything else, you want to learn how to read a woman's body language and interpret it the right way.
Like I mentioned before, sometimes guys will think a woman is hard to get, when in her mind she is sending really clear signs that she is interested. One thing that a lot of men get wrong, even so called pick up experts, is that not every woman is the same. What one woman does to show her attraction for a guy is not always going to be the same thing that another one does. When you can read a woman's body language, you can get a much better sense of what she is really feeling and thinking.
2. Don't let it get you 'strung out.'
It might be weird to hear the words strung out associated with a woman, but that is exactly how some guys get when they feel like a woman is playing hard to get with them. After a little while of this, it's like they are addicted to trying to win her over and when they get like this, it can quickly turn into an obsession. Of course, an obsession with a woman is NOT a good thing, it never is. So, make sure that you don't let the situation get you strung out on her. There are plenty of beautiful women out there, you don't need to get hung up on just one.
3. Learn how to escalate things with a woman.
Another common theme when a guy thinks a woman is just playing hard to get with them and they don't know what to do is, they really are not escalating things with her in the right way. You know, women are not going to tell you that they want you to do things a certain way or that this is the right time to make your move. This is something that you need to learn how to do.
