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No matter where you start from: rich or poor, attractive or plain, there are always ways to improve your chances with approaching beautiful women successfully. Some of these techniques may be obvious to most men, but it is surprising how many people have either overlooked or even forgotten them altogether. So, for the sake of brushing up your education on the art of seduction, here are 5 great ways to make yourself more appealing to women.
Wash, for goodness sake! Let's face it, one of the things that makes a woman attractive is that she is invariably well groomed and clean. Just think of the fact that she spent a fair bit of time getting that way, so it follows that to attract her, you should be capable of returning the favor. There is virtually no chance that she will enjoy the company of a man who brings with him the fug of an unwashed body, dirty teeth and filthy unkempt fingernails. Don't, by the way, ever think she won't notice. She will, at 50 paces, so you may as well clean up the act and do it straight away. There is no need to douse yourself in cologne, in fact this is probably just as off putting as body odor. Instead, showering or bathing with fresh neutral products and finishing off with a unimposing deodorant will do the job nicely. This way, you both get the benefit of a clean body and it also allows your subtle natural masculine pheromones to reach her and do their magic.This is such a simple and affordable way to perfect your seduction techniques.
Sort out your hair. There is nothing wrong with flowing man locks and an opulent beard. Some women really like this look, although many don't. Also, this look tends to be better on young guys, but can look old and gnarly on guys over 30. If you do want to stick to this, you have to remember that this does not excuse you from maintaining your hair. As above, cleanliness is an absolute priority, with regular shampooing and brushing, you can also benefit from hair conditioner for manageability, but watch out for overpowering fragrances. No matter what style of beard you have, keep it tidy and trimmed with no straggly bits outside of the general outline. And always, always, make sure you have tidied any nose or ear hair. A bit of a chore, perhaps, but so well worth it in the quest to attract a beautiful woman.
Do the laundry. What?! Yes guys, this is might be a drag, but it is important. All your self cleaning will be utterly wasted on her if you then throw on some daggy unwashed clothes. As for underwear, eek! Rule of thumb; change undies EVERY day. It is quite OK if your look is casual or even hobo chic. However, even this needs careful thought because the woman of your dreams will notice instantly if you have slept in your clothes and will back off before you even think of what you are going to say to her. The "beach bum" works best when it is fresh and clean and has the potential to make her wonder how clean the rest of you is bound to be. On the other side of the scale, smart or formal wear can look amazing, but please remember not to overdo it. Best to stick to neutral styles and colors; you don't want her falling of the chair with laughter at the sight of your seventies disco suit.
Practice confidence. Easier said than done for most, but it make such a difference in being successful with women. No matter what your failings, the chances are that you are your own biggest critic, and this can cause you to feel so inadequate that you come across as a bundle of nerves. The best start is to accept yourself and realise that there are millions of less than perfect specimens out there, both men and women, who have partners and families who love them for what they are. You can be one of them if you just relax and realise that you are just as deserving of love as anyone. Meditation is certainly a good way to achieve relaxation, and positive affirmations can work wonders if practiced regulary. Just remember that these efforts should be private, as you don't want to look like a raving looney by muttering "I am worthy, I am a sex god" under your breath when looming up to your chosen woman. As a matter of fact, your imperfections can be quite endearing in so many women if you are honest about yourself. This often awakens a mothering instinct in them and you can entice them into rising to the challenge of being the one who can make things right for you. The bottom line here is sincerity and honesty, which will be a fantastic basis for starting an approach and can even lead to long term intimacy.
Leave your baggage behind. Look, you will no doubt have been through the mill romantically, and it must have been hard to get over it. However, there is hardly a human being on the planet who has not suffered in love. Even the most beautiful women have been hurt in the past, so it should be some comfort to you to know that you are not alone, nor are you underserving of future happiness. However, carrying your pain around and broadcasting it to anyone who is willing to sit still long enough to listen, is a sure fire way of staying alone and unloved. It's not that women (or men) are unsympathetic about your past disappointments, it's just that the repetition of your story is a clear indication that you are not over it. This leads your prospective partner to believe that they have to compete with the memory of your pain and that you will never trust them for fear of the same thing happening again. This the most awful turn off. If you feel that you have to offload your failed romance during the first meeting, then you are not over it and should really find a way to resolve your feelings or retrain your focus on more positive issues. It it were you, would you like to spend time with a woman who did nothing but whine about how awful her ex was? Well, neither should you! Harsh, but true.
So, these points may be very basic, but they are amazingly effective in kick starting you into a great new phase of joining the dating game and being successful with beautiful women. For most men, regardless of age or status, a coaching course is a super effective way to find the right seduction techniques. Seek out experts and get started.
