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Have you ever listened as someone told you about something that had happened in their life. They are so good at telling the story that you actually feel like you are in the moment with them. You see the events taking place in your mind as they take you through the exciting story. One of the best ways to get a woman interested in you is to develop the skill of story telling. Here are some hints to use in developing the skill of becoming a good story-teller.In your life you have had lots of interesting things happen. No matter how boring you think you might be, everyone has events they can recall that are exciting. Those events make for good stories. Here is the key, you don't need 10 stories, or even five. Usually two good stories are plenty to use when you are using this as a pick up technique. You aren't going to sit there all night. With that being said you need to become your own greatest critic. Out of the stories you first thought of which are the absolute best? Pick two of them to work on.Now that you have your two stories in mind you need to become a great editor. The worst thing is a story that goes on forever. You need to edit the story down to its most exciting points. You are presenting an image here. Do you have stories that present you doing exciting things (hanging with celebs, skydiving, scuba diving, travelling in France). This story is going to color the girl's perception of you. You need to chop the story down to its most essential elements and make sure that it is peppered with visuals of you doing exciting things. Practice in front of a mirror telling these stories. Then practice with friends.Now that you have your stories, you have edited them, and you have practiced telling them; its time to use them. When you see an opportunity to tell your story, make it exciting. Use your voice to draw her in. If you sense she is losing interest speak softly and pull in closer to her. When you do she will do the same to hear what you are saying. Use hand gestures and facial expressions to get your point across. If you do this effectively you will have moved from being just a man in the bar to her seeing you as a fascinating person she wants to get to know.Storytelling is one of the best ways to build intrigue and interest in you as you are meeting women. If you follow these steps I have laid out here in no time you will be an effective storyteller and great at meeting women everywhere you go.
