subject: No easy to say getting married [print this page] No easy to say getting married No easy to say getting married
Now, the word of rushing marriage is growing more and more populous regardless of on the web or in the real life. And let me give you a widespread example take place in the year of 2010 ----the well-known Taiwan star Big S and Wong Xiaofei. It is said that they become familiar with one another in a friends birthday party and fall in love at the first vision. In just around three months, they get engaged. And now in this March, they will get married. I don't know what to say and judge if they make a right decision. But I still give my sincere bless to them.
Nevertheless, we still have to confess that rush marriage has a much bigger probability to breakup than the common ones. And the truth has proven that. Therefore, it is my word of advice that refrain from bridal gowns if you are uncertain he or she is the proper spouse of you. And in the following, two cases are unveiled for you. If you are going to get married, you can have a look and think whether your marriage is also just in this case. But I hope you will not be.
The most romantic is falling in love at the first meeting. It is my belief that all of you have seen the film Mr. & Mrs. Smith, in which Jolie and Peter, the two primary characters quickly fall in love and get married. But after their marriage, the reasons of their work make them have to cheat each other. Eventually, when they know the truth and they feel a sense of betrayal. Although their marriage thrives ultimately, it is film. In the real life, many of us cannot do that. Thereby, before we get married, we should know each other well, including their habits, preferences and so on. We should remember why we tie the knot. But love at first sight is gorgeous. I am still moved by the words Peter tells to Jolie---When I first saw you, you just like the Christmas morning.
Then, now, premarital sex is very normal in the young lovers. Even, many young girls are pursuing one night stand in pubs. But sometimes, they don't take proper measures to protect themselves. As a result, many young lovers have to get married just for the girl is mothers-to-be. If you have watched the movie 17 again, you must have experienced the miser in their marriage. The young Mike learns his girlfriend is pregnant in his high school basketball match. At last, he struggles to stop his study and go to work to support his family. In his middle age, he gets divorced with his wife for he believes that his life is ruined by his wife. Or else, he is maybe a basketball superstar. It is no rare to see this in our daily life. Thus, you should never let your girlfriend pregnant if you are not sure you will marry her.
In conclusion, marriage is a romantic and serious thing. Once you tie the knot, you need to be accountable for the other part. Otherwise, you must not say getting married.
