subject: Strengthening Your Marriage After Cheating – How to Make Your Marriage Stronger After You've Cheated [print this page] Strengthening Your Marriage After Cheating How to Make Your Marriage Stronger After You've Cheated
Strengthening your marriage after cheating might seem like something along the lines of Mission Impossible. It might even be a challenge worthy of The Dirty Dozen or some other group who does things no one else can do.
The thing is YOU, yes you, really CAN do it. As difficult as that is to believe at the moment, it's possible. You can make your marriage stronger after you've cheated on your wife than it ever was before you cheated. You just need to know how to make it happen.
You've probably tried all of the obvious things right?
You've tried gifts, flowers, and fancy dates. You've watched sappy romance movies and countless "chick flicks" with her. You've even suffered through the ballet or opera in an attempt to make her happy and get your marriage back on track. The problem is that none of these things seem to be working.
Your mind is still wandering. You're not happy. She's still afraid to trust you. She's not happy. No one is really happy with the circumstances. Butyou both love each other. No one wants to be the one to walk away either.
On the other hand, you know that if you don't do anything to make serious changes towards strengthening your marriage after cheating you are going to lose your marriage in the end.
The problem is that you aren't making real changes in your relationship. You're only making superficial changes. This leaves both of you waiting, on some level, for the other shoe to drop.
You feel like you're on your way to a not-so-happy ending for your marriage and that you're powerless to stop it. But, what if I were to tell you that YOU can REWRITE your ending?
You CAN have that happy ending you expected even after you cheated on your wife. It won't even take a ton of work to make it happen. You definitely won't need to change who you are at the core.
The one mistake that many other people in this situation make is pretending to change on the surface while remaining the same deep down inside. But you are not going to make that mistake. You are going to make changes that will help you with strengthening your marriage after cheating in ways you never dreamed possible.
How do you do this? You make your marriage stronger after you've cheated on your wife by learning to appreciate your wife for the bright, beautiful, accomplished woman that she is. More importantly, you learn to let her know that you appreciate all these things about her. You show your appreciation well and often and you'll have a stronger marriage than you ever dreamed possible.
