subject: Can I Get My Ex Back If She Cheated on Me- 3 Serious Questions You Need to Ask Yourself [print this page] Can I Get My Ex Back If She Cheated on Me- 3 Serious Questions You Need to Ask Yourself
It's unfortunate that sometimes people stray from a relationship. But, if you look at the statistics, you get the feeling that most people are going to have to deal with this at some point in their lives. Cheating can damage a relationship to the point where it cannot be saved at times, but at other times, it ends up being something that can be overcome. If your girlfriend cheated on you, and now you are getting the feeling that you still want to get back with her, keep reading.
You might make the assumption that once she has cheated on you that you cannot win her back, but that may not be the case. You need to really take a look at how important it is to you to get back with your ex girlfriend, and if you really can move past the idea that she cheated on you. If you can do this, then you are off to a good start and you just might be able to get her back.
Here are 3 questions that will help you answer the bigger question of, "can I get my girlfriend back if she cheated on me?" and help you understand what you need to do:
1) Can you really forgive her for straying from the relationship and cheating on You?
If you are going to harbor a lot of bad feelings, insecurity and feel like you cannot trust your ex girlfriend then you are in for a lot of problems if you want to be back in a relationship with her. Yes, it might sting that she ended up with someone else, and you might always have a little bit of wonder of whether or not she might slip away from you again, but it cannot be so much so that you end up accusing her of cheating on you when she isn't or you just feel like you cannot believe a word she says. So, this is something that you really need to look at before you try and win back your ex girlfriend.
2) Are you able to move on without feeling like you need to pay her back and do the same things she did?
This is a really common feeling that people, not just men, will get when they find out that the person they are with has cheated on them. They feel like they want to get revenge by doing the same thing, and they end up cheating on the other person and now they are in a really big mess of a relationship. If you are going to get back with her, you don't want to make things messier and harder to deal with, right? So, you need to be sure that you are not going to try and get her back by cheating on her.
3) Will you take action to win back your ex girlfriend or are you just going to think about it?
Now, a lot of men will say that they want to win back their ex girlfriend and that they are willing to do things to get her back, and yet... they don't do anything to make it happen. You have to be ready to take action if you are going to actually have your girlfriend back in your life. If you have a plan of action to get back with your ex girlfriend, you may be surprised at how quickly it can happen for You.
